- 3 years ago
So maybe some brides-to-be out there can help me with this one. I am getting marriend next year and have started looking at invitations and how to word them and all of that fun yet confusing stuff. Here is the dilemna: our wedding is really a joint effort…while my parents are paying for a majority of it including the venue, food, and plenty of other things, my brother bought my dress and is paying for alcohol, my FH’s aunt and uncle are paying for our DJ/entertainment, my aunt is paying for our cake, FMIL & FFIL are paying for rehearsal dinner, and we are also contributing. Therefore, who is the host and who do we put as the host/s on our invitation??? I don’t want to offend anyone especially since we are so grateful for all of the help but I obviously can’t list everyone on an invite…it would be too akward looking and also would never fit. Also, one of the things that my mom said to me when she let me know what she would contribute to our wedding is that the only involvement she wanted in the planning was to just know what was going on every now and then and just to be part of the big moments…she wanted nothing to do with decision making process and the planning itself so should I just put the return address as our own??? ANy input would be grately appreciated. TY!