Post # 1
Could someone tell my fiance that "well it’ll all be over in a month or so" is not a good answer when I’m talking about a wedding issue that’s frustrating me? It’s an answer that’s going to make me upset because it sounds like we just want this over with, when other than these few little stressors I am enjoying and savoring the build-up to our big day.
And while you’re at it, could you tell one of my bridesmaids that I don’t need to be told to be stressed about my wedding as if I’m too stupid to realize I should be? I’m relaxed because I’m ridiculously overprepared, and your job as bridesmaid is to tell me to calm down once the stress does hit, not tell me to get stressed.
Post # 3
I hear ya! Every time I get a LITTLE (we’re talking teensy) bit stressed or irked about something (or i tell someone "this is important, dont forget") my parents tell me I need to calm down, take a deep breath, and all that sort of stuff.
I find it really frickin’ annoying and it makes it a lot worse than just saying "ok!"
Let’s switch!! =p
Post # 4
AAHHH! I hate that! My FI is very supportive most of the time, but he has his go-to reply that makes me want to flip out…"Don’t worry about it babe." What?!? Don’t worry about it? This is only the biggest day of my life and the single largest party I have EVER planned. Just a little support, true-honest support, its all I ask for lol.
Post # 5
My FH is pretty supportive most of the time, but of course he peppers the support by calling me Miss cranky pants at the same time GRRR!
Post # 6
UGH!! I totally understand! As soon as I get a little stressed my FH makes it 100X worse by telling me that I’m cranky.
He also really annoys me b/c he gets tunnel vision with one aspect of the wedding. Like right now, we are working on invitations. Every day he askes me about the invitations and makes suggestions about what I could be doing to speed up the process. What he doesn’t realize is that I’m focusing on invitations, favors, readings for the ceremony, flower girl dresses, flowers and about 100 other things. It drives me nuts!