How do you bee's cope!

posted 2 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I don’t have an answer. We are planning our wedding already. We know the save the dates, what venue we want, and small bits of décor. He told me he will be proposing sooner than I think but longer than I would like! Ahhhhh!!! These guys are going to drive us crazy lol

Post # 3
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2549 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

You just try… really hard.  I didn’t start feeling okay until I got an end-date… “I will propose by….” But it comes in cycles!  Some days I’m upset, other days I’m anxious (for example, recently, because I really want to send out the save the dates we’ve had for a couple weeks now), and other days I’m confident and happy because I know it’s going to happen and we’re happy in our relationship and that’s all that matters.

Maybe pick one friend and ask if you can vent to them about it.  See if they’ll deal with your craziness for awhile… that way, your SO doesn’t have to 😉 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2025

MissYSK:  I would say plan your wedding while you’re waiting. Not necessarily have everything booked, but go around and see what you like/don’t like (venues/photographers/caterers) and reach out to them. It helps get the planning started, and it’ll take your mind off the ring 😀 

My FI proposed 6 months after he got the ring.. longest 6 months ever! But while I was waiting, I did research on vendors and asked questions. At one point, I didn’t even think about the ring because I was having so much fun looking at venues with FI! Somewhat streamlines the wedding planning too 😀 

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