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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    This was a discussion on a mommy forum I belong to. It started with several women saying they used mild soap and hot water. Then it was one or two women saying they only used hot water. Then finally someone immature said, "eww! How could you only use hot water!? That's nasty!" then it turned into a google link battle.

    So, without being immature and starting a google link war, how do you clean your lady parts? Just warm water? Mild soap? Douching? Whatever?

     
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    SweetRose2011    March 9, 2010  

    I'm interested to see what the other responses are to this..because I just wash them like I do everything else in the shower. Sometimes I pull the shower head down and spray them with a little extra water but nothing too special. 

     
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    blu77    October 2011  

    Are we talking inside or just outside? :)

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    @blu77: all of it! Well, not like inside inside. You aren't supposed to do anything with the inside inside parts! That's self cleaning.

     
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    Mostly hot water and a tiny bit of soap on the upper areas.  I stopped soaping up my entire area b/c I was getting weird burning feeling.  Vaginas are self cleaning, I clean my thighs really well though.  So far no odor with only water!

     
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    Kant    June 30, 2012   PA

    This is going to be way TMI so brace yourselves:

    I wash the outer bits with soap like I do everything else, then I sort of stick my butt out into the shower stream so that everything down there kinda, um, "spreads", and let the water rinse everything off.

    You're not supposed to wash the pink parts with soap. The only time mine ever get soap on them is when I'm shaving down there and soap inevitably gets everywhere.

     
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    @Kant:  That's kind of what I do too.

     
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    I normally use this Summer's Eve feminine wash.  I loved the way it smells.  They usually have a drugstore brand of it, too.  You just reminded me that I should go get some!  I haven't had any in a while, though, so I've just been doing soap and water.  I wash it like I wash everything else.  Normally, I will lather the area up and use my fingers to really clean everything out.  I don't like douching.  I do it occasionally, but don't find that it makes a lasting differnce.  Plus, it dries me out, so I really can't have sex the rest of the day when I do it (well, I can, but it is a lot more work and requires lube).

    I don't know about other women, mainly because I'm embarrassed to bring it up, but I have to work extra hard to keep myself smelling fresh.  When I go pee, I have to wipe like twice, then, when I stand up, a little more leaks out.  If I don't wipe again (after I stand up) before pulling up my panties, that little drop of urine will produce a horrible smell in my underwear.  Those little Always wipes smell good and they will keep "it" smelling good between showers.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    @Kant: thats exactly what I do too!

    I have never used anything but water and normal soap or bodywash...I've never had any issues

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    I was def raised that the vagina is self cleansing and it has a special balance of bacteria.

    I do not use soaps (specifically on that area) because I am extremely sensitive. Daily warm water suffices for me and I don't think that I smell and have never had any time of UTI or yeast infection.

    I guess its a personal preference along with mental security.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I just wash it with soap and water just like the rest of my body in the shower.

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    @Pinksapphire: does that stuff really do anything different from normal body wash?

     
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    tranquility    August 20, 2011  

    Soap outside.

    Spread then warm water "inside".

     

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    Soap and water, but not too much soap. I think too much soap can cause irritation and possibly infections? And nothing 'inside' but water as soap on the inside can definitely cause infections!

     
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    Kant    June 30, 2012   PA

    @beekiss & @PitBulLover: HAHA and I thought I was weird for doing it that way! It's such an odd position to stand in that I always think, "God, I must be the only person to be weird enough to come up with this" haha.

     
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    Mollytov    August 29, 2011   Vancouver

    I'm way too immature for this conversation. 

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    I use mild soap on the outside skin. Anything pink gets just warm water. Before I knew better, I use to put soap on the pink parts and felt dry and a burning sensation all day. I told my doctor and she told me that soap shouldn't touch the pink parts. It messes up your natural PH balance.

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    @Mollytov: LMAO!!!!

     
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    @Jenn23:  Exactly, I noticed I had itching and burning when I used too much soap around thoses areas.  So it's mostly water.  Maybe my soap is too harsh?

    @Kant: I do that to make sure shampoo and other stuff is cleaned out of that area.Embarassed

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    @Mollytov: lol if my girlfriends in real life had asked me, Id spit out my drink or die laughing! Something about the Bee that makes it doable ;) lol

     
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    Aubergold    May 2012   DC metro

    Dove soap only.  SQUAT and scrub.  RINSE ALL.

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    I just use whatever body wash I'm using to begin with, like the rest of my body parts! I don't wash the inside, and I try not to get much soap on my lady parts. I spoke with my doctor about how sex hurts, she immediately told me that I wasn't supposed to use much soap (if any) down there (inside or out). I don't spray the hose down there either, I just let the water rinse down, rub a little and I'm done.

     
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    tranquility    August 20, 2011  

    We are a hive of fresh bees eh 

     
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    blu77    October 2011  

    @Kant: Agreed! That's pretty much what I do.

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    @Pinksapphire: i love me some summers eve!! i use the wipes and body wash!

     

    @Miss Tattoo: awe some topic. i was one of the self learning women. my mom never had this talk with me! when i got my period for the first time i though i was dying because no one had ever told me that your suppose to bleed down there!

    my school nurse finally informed me what was going on with my body....

    Anyway like i stated i use summers eve now, but after i had my son i became a serious doucher. this is NOT good for your body. i had cronic yeast inefections (TMI). my doctor had to put me on a serious antibiotic and told me "the vagina is self cleaning oven!!! DONT TOUCH IT" lol.

    URGH WORD TO THE WISE NEVER STICK ANY DOUCHES UP YOUR VA JAY JAY!!

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    @MrsStrawberry24: how is Summer's Eve different from regular body wash? I've never understood that.

     
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    Crisark    November 5, 2011   WV

    Normal soap and water like I do the rest of my body.

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    @daydreamwanderer: it is a very very MILD sensitive body wash. All soaps leave a thin layer of soap scum on your skin....that is not healthy for your vajayjay.

    im sure you can use body wash and soap like PP but ilike knowing that this is made just for cleaning"her" up

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    Yep, same body wash I use for the rest of my body. Never inside inside though.

     
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    Wonderwoman217       Augusta, Georgia

    Lol, the Bee is awesomesauce. Like most PPs, mild soap and water for the outer bits, no soap for the pink bits, followed by a thorough rinsing. Usually the rinsing part requires some yoga-like poses, rotfl! 

    No douching for me, either. I once had this convo w/ a group of girlfriends (we were all around 17/18 at the time) and they were all astonished that I did NOT douche. They made fun of me and thought it was nasty to not give it a spring cleaning. I tried informing them that gyno's advised against it, etc etc, but they all said my doc must be crazy. Ha. (fwiw, I lost touch w/ them, but who's laughing now?)

     
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    MrsStormy    February 26, 2011   Northern California

    @Kant: Yup this exactly, and agree I thought I was a weirdo for doing that.

     
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    PutABirdOnIt    December 30, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Just a little soap and then the "spread and rinse" like everyone else:)  Kind of un-related but found myself wishing bidets were more common here.  It's just so much cleaner to rinse the bum than use wads of TP.  Also, when I have my period I feel a little messy and musty and would love to do a quick rinse during the day and get rid of that "not-so-fresh feeling"

     
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    @MrsStrawberry24: interesting. do you use it with the same shower poof as your regular body wash, or keep everything separate? I think I'm a little weird about shower stuff - I buy a new poof every time I start a new bottle of body wash, haha...it feels weird to use the old one with new body wash.

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    @PutABirdOnIt: i agree!

    that is kinda what "upsets" me. i know all our gyno's say that it is a self cleaning oven....but sometimes that oven isnt the freshiest smelling body part!!

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    @daydreamwanderer: omg me too! im a cronic poof changer! i was watching oprah and they were saying how much bacteria and and mildew can build up in them!

    and no i use my hands....i lather them up and that way i can get all the crevices lol

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    soap and water on the "outside"  and then water on the inner parts.

    I've been told that that the feminine rinses really arent good for you.

     
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    Wonderwoman217       Augusta, Georgia

    @MrsStrawberry24: Rotfl, the oven may be self-cleaning, but the door needs a good wipe down on a regular basis! 

    I agree, I wish bidets were more common in the states, especially when Aunt Flow comes, and *TMI alert* my hormones have knocked my bowels out whack. Blood AND poo? Ewww, sometimes I want to take a shower after I'm done! I've found what helps, is they give you a little squeeze water bottle at the hospital after you've given (vaginal) birth, and I keep it under my cabinet to rinse things off down there when I feel especially gross. 

     
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    PutABirdOnIt    December 30, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @Wonderwoman217: That is a genius idea!  I also will sometimes use those Cottonelle wipes but they don't replace a nice, cleansing squirt of warm water.

     
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    MrsStrawberry24    March 24, 2012   Bartlett, IL

    @Wonderwoman217: TMI and Confession:: i shower after every bowel movement!! like full shower...my FI thinks i have OCD but i have to tell him...those 2 holes are too close together!!

     
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    Neva    July 2010  

    I'm kind of a scrubber with soap and water on the outside, but rinsing with water only for the inside parts.

    Did anyone see that episode of The Doctors a few years ago when they were talking about the Waterworks Natural Vaginal Cleansing System?  Has anyone tried it?

     

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