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This was a discussion on a mommy forum I belong to. It started with several women saying they used mild soap and hot water. Then it was one or two women saying they only used hot water. Then finally someone immature said, "eww! How could you only use hot water!? That's nasty!" then it turned into a google link battle.
So, without being immature and starting a google link war, how do you clean your lady parts? Just warm water? Mild soap? Douching? Whatever?
I'm interested to see what the other responses are to this..because I just wash them like I do everything else in the shower. Sometimes I pull the shower head down and spray them with a little extra water but nothing too special.
@blu77: all of it! Well, not like inside inside. You aren't supposed to do anything with the inside inside parts! That's self cleaning.
Mostly hot water and a tiny bit of soap on the upper areas. I stopped soaping up my entire area b/c I was getting weird burning feeling. Vaginas are self cleaning, I clean my thighs really well though. So far no odor with only water!
This is going to be way TMI so brace yourselves:
I wash the outer bits with soap like I do everything else, then I sort of stick my butt out into the shower stream so that everything down there kinda, um, "spreads", and let the water rinse everything off.
You're not supposed to wash the pink parts with soap. The only time mine ever get soap on them is when I'm shaving down there and soap inevitably gets everywhere.
I normally use this Summer's Eve feminine wash. I loved the way it smells. They usually have a drugstore brand of it, too. You just reminded me that I should go get some! I haven't had any in a while, though, so I've just been doing soap and water. I wash it like I wash everything else. Normally, I will lather the area up and use my fingers to really clean everything out. I don't like douching. I do it occasionally, but don't find that it makes a lasting differnce. Plus, it dries me out, so I really can't have sex the rest of the day when I do it (well, I can, but it is a lot more work and requires lube).
I don't know about other women, mainly because I'm embarrassed to bring it up, but I have to work extra hard to keep myself smelling fresh. When I go pee, I have to wipe like twice, then, when I stand up, a little more leaks out. If I don't wipe again (after I stand up) before pulling up my panties, that little drop of urine will produce a horrible smell in my underwear. Those little Always wipes smell good and they will keep "it" smelling good between showers.
@Kant: thats exactly what I do too!
I have never used anything but water and normal soap or bodywash...I've never had any issues
I was def raised that the vagina is self cleansing and it has a special balance of bacteria.
I do not use soaps (specifically on that area) because I am extremely sensitive. Daily warm water suffices for me and I don't think that I smell and have never had any time of UTI or yeast infection.
I guess its a personal preference along with mental security.
I just wash it with soap and water just like the rest of my body in the shower.
@Pinksapphire: does that stuff really do anything different from normal body wash?
Soap and water, but not too much soap. I think too much soap can cause irritation and possibly infections? And nothing 'inside' but water as soap on the inside can definitely cause infections!
@beekiss & @PitBulLover: HAHA and I thought I was weird for doing it that way! It's such an odd position to stand in that I always think, "God, I must be the only person to be weird enough to come up with this" haha.
I use mild soap on the outside skin. Anything pink gets just warm water. Before I knew better, I use to put soap on the pink parts and felt dry and a burning sensation all day. I told my doctor and she told me that soap shouldn't touch the pink parts. It messes up your natural PH balance.
@Jenn23: Exactly, I noticed I had itching and burning when I used too much soap around thoses areas. So it's mostly water. Maybe my soap is too harsh?
@Kant: I do that to make sure shampoo and other stuff is cleaned out of that area.
@Mollytov: lol if my girlfriends in real life had asked me, Id spit out my drink or die laughing! Something about the Bee that makes it doable ;) lol
I just use whatever body wash I'm using to begin with, like the rest of my body parts! I don't wash the inside, and I try not to get much soap on my lady parts. I spoke with my doctor about how sex hurts, she immediately told me that I wasn't supposed to use much soap (if any) down there (inside or out). I don't spray the hose down there either, I just let the water rinse down, rub a little and I'm done.
@Pinksapphire: i love me some summers eve!! i use the wipes and body wash!
@Miss Tattoo: awe some topic. i was one of the self learning women. my mom never had this talk with me! when i got my period for the first time i though i was dying because no one had ever told me that your suppose to bleed down there!
my school nurse finally informed me what was going on with my body....
Anyway like i stated i use summers eve now, but after i had my son i became a serious doucher. this is NOT good for your body. i had cronic yeast inefections (TMI). my doctor had to put me on a serious antibiotic and told me "the vagina is self cleaning oven!!! DONT TOUCH IT" lol.
URGH WORD TO THE WISE NEVER STICK ANY DOUCHES UP YOUR VA JAY JAY!!
@MrsStrawberry24: how is Summer's Eve different from regular body wash? I've never understood that.
@daydreamwanderer: it is a very very MILD sensitive body wash. All soaps leave a thin layer of soap scum on your skin....that is not healthy for your vajayjay.
im sure you can use body wash and soap like PP but ilike knowing that this is made just for cleaning"her" up
Yep, same body wash I use for the rest of my body. Never inside inside though.
Lol, the Bee is awesomesauce. Like most PPs, mild soap and water for the outer bits, no soap for the pink bits, followed by a thorough rinsing. Usually the rinsing part requires some yoga-like poses, rotfl!
No douching for me, either. I once had this convo w/ a group of girlfriends (we were all around 17/18 at the time) and they were all astonished that I did NOT douche. They made fun of me and thought it was nasty to not give it a spring cleaning. I tried informing them that gyno's advised against it, etc etc, but they all said my doc must be crazy. Ha. (fwiw, I lost touch w/ them, but who's laughing now?)
@Kant: Yup this exactly, and agree I thought I was a weirdo for doing that.
Just a little soap and then the "spread and rinse" like everyone else:) Kind of un-related but found myself wishing bidets were more common here. It's just so much cleaner to rinse the bum than use wads of TP. Also, when I have my period I feel a little messy and musty and would love to do a quick rinse during the day and get rid of that "not-so-fresh feeling"
@MrsStrawberry24: interesting. do you use it with the same shower poof as your regular body wash, or keep everything separate? I think I'm a little weird about shower stuff - I buy a new poof every time I start a new bottle of body wash, haha...it feels weird to use the old one with new body wash.
@PutABirdOnIt: i agree!
that is kinda what "upsets" me. i know all our gyno's say that it is a self cleaning oven....but sometimes that oven isnt the freshiest smelling body part!!
@daydreamwanderer: omg me too! im a cronic poof changer! i was watching oprah and they were saying how much bacteria and and mildew can build up in them!
and no i use my hands....i lather them up and that way i can get all the crevices lol
soap and water on the "outside" and then water on the inner parts.
I've been told that that the feminine rinses really arent good for you.
@MrsStrawberry24: Rotfl, the oven may be self-cleaning, but the door needs a good wipe down on a regular basis!
I agree, I wish bidets were more common in the states, especially when Aunt Flow comes, and *TMI alert* my hormones have knocked my bowels out whack. Blood AND poo? Ewww, sometimes I want to take a shower after I'm done! I've found what helps, is they give you a little squeeze water bottle at the hospital after you've given (vaginal) birth, and I keep it under my cabinet to rinse things off down there when I feel especially gross.
@Wonderwoman217: That is a genius idea! I also will sometimes use those Cottonelle wipes but they don't replace a nice, cleansing squirt of warm water.
@Wonderwoman217: TMI and Confession:: i shower after every bowel movement!! like full shower...my FI thinks i have OCD but i have to tell him...those 2 holes are too close together!!
I'm kind of a scrubber with soap and water on the outside, but rinsing with water only for the inside parts.
Did anyone see that episode of The Doctors a few years ago when they were talking about the Waterworks Natural Vaginal Cleansing System? Has anyone tried it?
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