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I'm getting married on May 22, and as the date draws closer I'm starting to feel some anxiety building.  I know pre-wedding jitters are completely normal, but I was wondering how other bees cope with that nervous feeling.  I'm not nervous about anything related to wedding planning, and it's not second thoughts, it's just...constant butterflies in my stomach.  The occasional tightness in my chest.

I should add, I'm also have a difficult decision to make coming up in the near future.  I'm going to start my Bachelor of Education in the fall, and can either go to a small school in the Maritimes (very close to where my FI was raised) or to a larger school in Ontario (Queen's University, which is a short drive from my home in Ottawa).  Either way, we have to leave the small town where we've been living (I've been here almost five years, he's been here almost seven) and it's a tough call to make.

Any suggestions or tips for coping with axiety?

I have an amazing fiance who has to remind me occasionally when I am getting too worked up over the details.  We're getting married and at the end of the day, I'll be a wife for much longer than the one day I'll be a bride.  Hugs, kisses, and yummy food don't hurt either ;)

I think it's important to give yourself some NWR time and hobbies to relieve your stress.

Thanks guys, I really appreciate the advice.  With regards to the university decision, it has to be made by early April, but thankfully I've narrowed it down to two choices.  I have also signed up for an Aquafit class, which I know is a great way for me to de-stress and feel great about my body.  

@Beachbrideamy, I haven't tried natural calm, but I'm going to start a bedtime ritual with herbal tea to relax.  And I hear you on the valium.  I've never tried it, but I want something that will take the edge off the night before the big day!  (I'll probably stick to Xanax, since I know how my body reacts to it.)