How do you feel when ppl tell you your DH is hot?

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

lol im a tad bit of a jealous cow. Any one of my friends can tell me my SO is goodlooking im ok with that, anyone else that would randomly come up and say wow your bf is soo hot. I would feel …proud but my claws would come out. lololllll

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Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

For the record, neither of us are jealous types at all. I feel flattered and proud! After all, I think he’s hot, and he picked me! I’ve never asked anyone whether they were attracted to my DH though; I think it’d be weird for other people to ask me what I think of their SO. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

souza_2005:  I would find it a little uncomfortable sometimes, but 98% as a compliment. It really depends on how it’s said. 

Something I wouldn’t flinch at: someone just meets FI – “Wow! [FI] is attractive!” Thanks!

Something that would bother me: “OMG he’s so hot! Damn, girl! *insert rambling on and on about how FI is hot* ” 

 

There’s a difference between paying a simple compliment and being weird about it, imo. My grandma definitely told me that FI was a very attractive man when we started dating (with goofy winking), and I thought it hilarious. But when a random chick decides to tell me a whole story on how FI is hot, I’mma get a littttttle territorial. 

I also don’t like the friends that need constant confirmation that their SO is hot. It just seems weird to me to go about asking other people if your SO is attractive. It really only matters if you think your SO is attractive. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

when the roles are reversed I’m flattered. I like it the other way around. He’s a reflection of me and visa versa. I like it. 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Depends. When people tell me that my husband is a good looking man I appreciate the compliment to him. But when it’s someone I don’t like commenting on it, then I get a little annoyed, not jealous, annoyed the “I know he’s handsome thank you for telling me.”

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

gillykat824:  yeah i agree! I wouldnt go around asking my friends that. seems peculiar.

My gram did the same thing!!!!!!! She was actually speechless the first time she met him, she was sitting in her chair and i walked and said gram this is pauly and she jus did the :-O then heeeellllllllooooo pauly how are you

[my goodness Amerie he is handsome! ] lololll so cute.

she was also in love with ricky martins butt back in the day loollllll

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Amerie27:  Hahaha!! My grandma definitely watches football for the butts. She’s hilarious. Gotta love feisty grandmas!! 😀

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

hahaah so true!!!!!!!! she is one feisty lil lady let me tell you. lol

hell i like football for the butts..and the game hahaaha

Post # 10
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Busy bee

I love it! makes me that much prouder of my man!  As long as they aren’t saying “he’s so hot I wish I could have my way with him” you should be fine 🙂

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess

my fi works at a grocery store and is forever getting hit on. he is not overly handsome or anything, but he is very charming, chatty, and he has a scottish accent. apparently that’s an irresistable combination…. it worked for me.

i am flattered by it, and it seems to build him up. and i always know he’s coming home to me.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel like they are intelligent women with excellent eyesight.  DH is beyond hot!

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

I’m always super conflicted about it. On one hand, I want people to think my man’s attractive. On the other, it ends up stirring up some of my trust issues (had a dad who cheated on my mom repeatedly so am rather scarred from that).

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Smug smug smug haha my husband is super handsome and I recieved a lot of mmmmm’s from girlfriends. Thing is, I love him and he loves me and we only have eyes for each other. I trust him in a room full of naked swimwear models unsupervised. I take the compliment. I dun picked goooooood!  

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Do you think you’re putting a little too much stock in what people have to say about looks? 

I mean, I get feeling flattered if someone says you or DH is hot, but for me, it’s kind of mild flattery and then it quickly becomes irrelevant. I don’t really care if anyone says my DH is hot or I’m hot or if anyone else asks me if their SI is hot (although I sort of think that’s a bit of weird thing to ask), because it’s kind of meaningless. You might as well replace “cute” or “hot” with “tall” or “big-footed.” Someone could say my DH is “hot” or “ugly”; I could answer “yes” or “no” to the question, and neither answer would make a difference regarding anything. 

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