How do you identify sexually?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Worker bee

I experiemented with the “other side” very briefly, and while fun, I am definitely straight. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

For a long time I liked the word “heteroflexible.” I’ve made out with girls, and frankly I tried putting my mouth on a boob once, but I didn’t like it.

But I feel like the longer I’ve been with DH the less flexible I’ve become, and even though now, the dating site we met through, okcupid, has it as an option, I don’t think I ever would have picked it. I was never interested in going all the way with a woman in reality, and even in dreams, almost never.

But the thing I think that a lot of people forget is that sexuality can be fluid. Just because you were 50/50 bisexual when you were 20 doesn’t mean that you are when you’re 30.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

In general, I think the simplest answer is the way it was explained to me a million years ago when I asked my mom how people know they are gay (or whatever). She explained it like this: When you think about who you want to kiss, then you’ll know. So if it’s a boy or a girl or both or neither, there’s your answer. 

Me? Straight. The idea of touching a naked girl is just not for me. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Bisexual and very proud of it.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

You’d prob get a lot more responses with a poll! It might be too late to add one though

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Straight. I think women are beautiful but so are men and sexually I’m only attracted to men.

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Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

100% straight. Have never experimented with or fantasised about being with a woman. I like men!!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

sweetis:  I am straight, but I can definitely dig girls. I am not bisexual though. I think, like you, I could not get near a vagina or date a girl lol but I’ve kissed some girls and I can appreciate a hot lady.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee

sweetis:  I’m a true bisexual. I’ve had full on sex with men and women, and I’ve romantically dated both men and women.

I would say that physically, I am attracted to a higher percentage of women than I am men- but personality wise and intellectually I’m attracted to men moreso than I am women.

I am also attracted to very different things in each. I prefer very masculine looking men and very feminine looking women. With men I tend to play the stereotypical female role (I’m very feminine, petitie, enjoy cooking, etc.)- with the women I have dated I tend to be a little more dominant. For example, I would pay for the date, ask her out, open doors for her, etc. It’s just what feels natural to me in each situation. 

My FI is male and I’m 100% monogamous with him, he’s totally fine with me being bi and has always had lots of LGBTQ friends. Most of my friends are gay (and happily coupled), and we have been roommates with them and hang out together all the time. I couldn’t be with a man or woman who didn’t “get it”. Especially since many people think being bi isn’t a real thing. For what it’s worth, it is. I remember the first time I thought about my attraction to both sexes, I was in second grade. 

I didn’t know if I would end up with a man or a woman as my long time partner, it just so worked out for me that it happened to be a guy. 

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Haha I know! It’s actually a gif but I don’t know how to upload it correctly on my iPad 🙁

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