How do you interact with your best friend?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

We talk about pretty much everything.  The only thing we don’t really talk about is sex, because my husband is her older brother.  It would just be weird!!!!  

Post # 4
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8282 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

We talk about pretty much everything as well.  I rarely have things that I can’t say to her, unless it’s something she said or did that I don’t agree with where she didn’t ask my advice. 

Post # 5
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5697 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

We used to tell each other a lot more and in much more harsh and confrontational terms than we do now. Now that we are both married we share less about relationships, sex, arguments etc than we used to. We also try to be honest with each other but for me, I find I have to dance around my words and choose them wisely these days, much more so than before. Ita frustrating.

Post # 6
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7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I tell my best friend a lot of stuff, but I don’t discuss my sex life with anyone but my husband (or on an online forum like this one!). I guess I just never really felt comfortable discussing that stuff. I also try not to majorly bitch to anyone about my husband (like if we have a fight or something) because I don’t want them to have a skewed, one-sided perception of him. That never ends well. We try to keep our fights (nothing major so far!) within our marriage.

If she’s going to do something that I think is a bad idea, I will tell her. I haven’t encountered a situation yet where I needed to tell her something but couldn’t.

Post # 7
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1134 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

We talk about a lot of things, but I don’t talk about things that are none of her business (like my sex life), and I don’t want to talk about things that are none of my business (like if I knew her partner was cheating on her or something. Absolutely none of my business).

Post # 8
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1626 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

We talk about a lot of stuff, sex included. We talk about our dreams, goals, aspirations, we send each other pictures (she’s in TX, I’m on the east coast) and chat every day on Gchat. I send her kids stuff for school and their birthdays/Christmas, etc. 

I totally have told her what I do and don’t like and she has done the same. XD <3 her.

Post # 9
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1197 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My BFFs and I talk about most everything.  However, there are some issues that are painful for them, so I try to not to bring them up with the individual girl.  For example, my BFF from high school is super scared of dogs so I try not to send her videos of my puppies tearing up things around the house etc.  

Post # 10
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3200 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I tell my BFF about 90% of everything.   Some things are too intimate to tell anyone besides my hubby.  But those things are subjects that I wouldn’t post on a form either.

Post # 11
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1333 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

We talk about everything but sex. Or at least my sex life. I used to relate hook-ups and flings, and she still does some (she’s single,) but in a serious relationship I feel like its disrespectful to my FI, and a violation of our trust, to talk about that to anyone. But I would absolutely tell her if she was planning to wear something ugly or if her boyfriend was cheating on her. I see that as my business to tell her because I care about her, and cheating puts her at risk physically and emotionally. I also think we are more comfortable talking about money than most people, we grew up together and dealt with those issues long ago.

Post # 12
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234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@HonoraryNerd:  well my best friend is my fiance (honestly). I had girl-friends growing up that we would share everything with but college kind of seperated us some. I’ll be asking them to be my BMs but I can understand being a little hesitant asking them things

Post # 13
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1169 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I have a few best friends and our interactions are all different. One girl I tell everything to… sex, bodily functions, deep secrets – nothing is off the table. We met when we were teenagers, so I think we met when our personalities were more set in stone. Another best friend of mine has been there since we were 8. Our friendship is deeply rooted in history, but we’re very different. I’m an open book and she’s rather reserved. She’d probably pass out if I did half the things I do around my other best friend (like…walk around naked, ha!). 

Post # 14
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671 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We talk about just about everything. We talk almost every day and even go grocery shopping together.

Post # 15
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227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

We talk about everything especially sex! 

I have my own issues with relying on others for help but it has nothing to do with feeling comfortable confiding in my best friend. It’s my own deal and I’ve been working on that.

Post # 16
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I believe in boundaries. In high school I had a “tell everything to” best friend but not anymore. My relationship details aren’t for public consumption. My husband is my best friend anyway, followed by my sister. I can tell them anything but I choose not to tell my sister about my sex life. That seems juvenile to me. 

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