(Closed) How do you invite bridesmaids SO?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

You should still send your bridal party invitations.  Address it to both of them or just her plus guest. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Unless they live together, I would get his address from her and send him his own invitation.

If they do live together, I think I would still do his name first, even though she’s the one in the wedding party, though I really can’t say why I’d do it that way.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My bridesmaid lives with her boyfriend, who she has been with for three years, and we are planning on addressing the invitation with both of their names. 🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@SoontobeMrsA:  I’d still put both names on it, even though as a member of the bridal party it is assumed she is going to be there.  And I would address it the same as you would to any other couple with different last names.

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

We sent invites to anyone in a committed relationship.  If they didn’t live together, the person who lived at the address had their name first.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@SoontobeMrsA: I know there are etiquette rules for everything, but I was planning on putting her name first because we know her way better and she’s the one who will really be looking for it in the mail. I don’t think your guests will really care all that much as long as both of their names are on there! 🙂

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m putting the name first of the person we have the closest relationship to, so in your case it would be ms. katy green, mr. sam jones (make sure their names are on separate lines and there is no ‘and’)

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@juhneenee:‘and’ implies marriage

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