- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
So fellow bees, how do you blow off steam when wedding stuff (and your groom) are just too much to take?
I love my groom, but he made me so mad today (this is also probably influenced by the fact that I am taking the bar next week and am more stressed out than usual). He’s on vacation with a bunch of our friends for the week (while I’m stuck at home studying) and he let it slip to some of my girls that they are my bridesmaids. We weren’t going to announce it for another month since he still needed to finalize his groomsmen. So he doesn’t tell his guy friends, but tells my girls the big news without me. I’m so mad right now because he did that with my flowergirls too! I’m so mad because I feel like the handmade cards I have will just fall flat and are nearly pointless now, because they’ll just get them in the mail and be like… yeah I know.
I know this is something stupid to be upset about, and when I found out I didn’t let on how upset I am, because it was more a mistake than intentional. So now I’m all disgruntled and can’t seem to calm down (again most likely do to that huge test my fate depends on).
Any tips or tricks to calm down and let it go?