Post # 1
Ok, well to start off, you should know that most everything about our wedding is a secret. I am keeping everything a surprise, even minimal info is told to fiances parents and family … even MY OWN family who are paying don’t really know what it all looks like and how it will be.
So fiance is on the phone discussing who’s on the guest list, talking about our band, saying we’ll have so much fun and we’ll party all weekend (at the hotel we’ll be at) and just going on and on about it.
Mean while … I’m in the background giving my most evil stink eye and threatening fiance if he says another word … blah blah you know! Lol..
I cannot stand IT when he tells anyone anything about our wedding. Especially his bestfriend who is soooo nosey and wants to know everything. Grr.
Post # 3
Why? Are you both trying to keep it a secret? I’d be psyched if i overheard my FI chatting up our wedding like it was super awesome and cool. As it is right now, his facebook page says "trying not to get lost in E’s wedding stuff"…LoL. He appreciates what I’m doing, but he definitely is not interested in all the details!!!
Post # 4
Its different your trying to keep everything a secret! It will be a greta suprise on othe big day, yes but in the meantime things are gonna slip. You have to realize that!
I, on the ootherhand am super blurting out eversingle detail to everyone, ha ha I can’t help it.
As for my FI talking about the wedding to his friend, honestly. I think his friends hate him because of it. ha ha he doesnt shut up about it! you would think he was like my wedding planner or something! he is insane! I just roll my eyes when he starts talking about it with his friends, as if they really want to hear about the harpist that we have playing, and how he picked out some songs ha ha.
Post # 5
In our case, my fiancee is the one who would like to keep everything a secret, and I’m the one who wants to talk about all the details. Our compromise is that I’m allowed to talk with a few people whom she has pre-approved. If I say anything online, I have to leave out any identifying information, so our friends cannot find it.
Post # 6
We are both keeping t higns as a secret as well. The guys standing with him in the wedding ask how things are going with the planning, he says fine and then thats it. Not only do we want things to be a surprise but people we know who will be attending the wedding are SUPER critical and downright rude with some of the comments that I have heard them make about other people in our social circles weddings, therefore I don’t want them bashing me. Some have got a little upset abotu me not wanting to talk, but I think now they are just accepting it. The only people that know anything are both set of parents, my MOH and thats it. Less complications that way….
Post # 7
it only bothers me when its an idea we are throwing around (nothing set) because then he goes and says oh yeah I told some guy at work we are doing blah blah blah… he can’t wait. I’m like, uhhh we were discussing it but its not set in stone.
The big things I want to keep a secret are a secret from him, namely my dress. So no worries there.