How do you travel with your SO?

posted 3 years ago in Travel
  • poll: Do you do everything together with your SO when on vacation?
    We do absolutely everything together : (53 votes)
    70 %
    We do some things together and some things separately : (19 votes)
    25 %
    We both do things separately and then meet up later : (0 votes)
    Other - explain : (4 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    1111 posts
    Bumble bee

    It depends on the length of time, really.

    My FI and I are in a LDR, so we only see each other on weekends and holidays; thus we never travel together long enough really for the novelty to wear off of seeing each other. We’re usually attached at the hip during that time.

    However, we did study abroad together over a summer, and after a week or so we found that spending every waking second together was NOT going to work, lol. When our school group would take day trips we would separate to give ourselves a breather and then regroup afterwards.

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We do almost everything together.  A lot of our trips were based on golf, and I would occassionally go golfing with him, but he likes to go first thing in the morning and I like to sleep in.  Now he’ll go golfing on his own, and I will sleep in and wander around by myself for a while.  We will meet for lunch and spend the rest of the day together 🙂

    Post # 5
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    451 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We do everything together on holiday, because we like to do the same things. We both like sightseeing and visiting historical and cultural places, as opposed to lazing by the pool or on the beach.

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @laceydoilies:  We have only been on trips alone together— never been on a group vaca, so I think that would be different.

    When we go on trips we do everything together, unless it’s like running to grab coffees or something among those lines.  

    I can totally imagine that if we were on a cruise with friends, I may end up doing one activity while he goes to another. But if it were just the two of us, we would not.

    Post # 7
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    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Dh and I split to do different activities. There are just some things that he enjoys that I do not and vise versa. Example. Every year, over the fourth of July, we go to our cabin. The third and the fourth the lake is just packed with ski boats and jet skis making the water very choppy. I don’t like to go on the water when it’s like that as I don’t swim. So he goes out skiing and tubing while I head to the local bar to play poker with a few local old guys. I have a great time as does he, it’s a win win. 

    Post # 8
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    1355 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

    The VAST majority of the time, we’re doing things together. Occasionally, I’ll run out and do things that require riding a bike like going to pick up dinner or groceries (he can’t ride a bike), but generally, we do things together mostly because we end up in places where I’m the only one who knows the area because he hasn’t traveled much.

    Post # 9
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We do everything together. I wouldn’t want to be separated when on vacation, especially in another country. 

    Post # 10
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    177 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My husband doesn’t want to spend any time alone when travelling, so if it’s just the two of us, we do everything together, but may split off if we are with friends.

    Post # 11
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Most things are together.  Sometimes we go for a run separately while on vacation (I’m just not that fast!), or if I know someone in the area, I may meet up with them individually, but then join H with friend for dinner.  I guess it’s not the same across the board.  There’s other trips where he’s right next to me 24/7!

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee

    My selection was ‘other’ explain.

    SO and I have been on vacation many times mostly with family, sometimes by ourselves, and we have not had the luxury to go on trips with friends (his schedule won’t allow it).

    ANYWAY-We go with the flow.  For the most part, we do things together, but sometimes with his family or with my family, the opportunity presents us to either break off in boy/girl groups to do gender preferred activities or breaking up off into groups for eating out/hanging out at a preferred place.  Sometimes we just want to do different things, and we do. 

    One thing we are NOT are huge planners when we are on vacation.  We just take every moment as it comes and decide what’s happening as it happens.  No big deal lol.

    Post # 13
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We sort of do some things seperately. Like if we go to the beach he might go for a walk or swim while I read. Or he’ll take a nap while I loung in the pool. But we do most things together, especially things that require going someplace. Like I wouldn’t visit a museum or something while he went somewhere else. If we were on a longer vacation, or one where we didn’t have to drive to do things (like a cruise) we’d do more stuff seperately.  

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Banff, Alberta

    We have similar interests and are both adventurous. I can’t think of something one would want to do and the other wouldn’t while on vacation. 

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We don’t do flights, but we drive together okay.

    Post # 16
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @laceydoilies:  We would spend every minute of every day together if we could, so vacations are great! We spend all of our time together, but we also tend to want to do the same stuff. I’m sure if our interests or activity levels varied, we would split up. 

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