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posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
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  • poll:
    4-5" : (45 votes)
    7 %
    5-6" : (142 votes)
    24 %
    6-7" : (195 votes)
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    7-8" : (138 votes)
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    8-9" : (55 votes)
    9 %
    9-10" : (10 votes)
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    Holy SH!T 10+ : (16 votes)
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    For the bees who have had previous romantic relationships, How does your Fiance or Husband size up to the X's? My guy is a grower not a shower, which means, he is tiny while flaccid or "not excited". But when he gets aroused, he "Grows" to be quite impressive.

    Ever Measured?

    Do you prefer Length or Girth(thickness)?

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    I shall go first, We have measured, roughly 8" in length when aroused. and quite thick, which is how I like it, the thicker the better IMO

     
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    ama0219    May 18, 2013   Greensboro, NC

    FI is a grower. We've never measured, but he says that when he measured alone he was arounfd 8" and he's pretty thick around. He was my first so I have nobody to compare him to.

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    @ama0219:Mine is DEF a grower, he is tiny when I see him getting dressed and getting in the shower and so on, I am sure glad it gets bigger cause if it stayed that size all the time, poor guy. I mean like smaller than a pinky, soft. almost like an outtie bellie button. but on the bright side he does GROW

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    It's all about the width (though length is obviously good, too!). My husband is the largest guy i've been with. I've never actually measured him, but i'd estimate he's 3-ish inches bigger than my ex's.

     
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    ama0219    May 18, 2013   Greensboro, NC

    @wbrn: He's about 3 or 4 inches flaccid but he grows much larger.

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    @crayfish:3 in bigger than past lovers, wow., either they were small or Mr is  really nice sizedCool

     
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    Glitterati89    December 4, 2010   Sydney

    DH is quite small when flacid (only exaggerated by his 6'3 frame) but once he is excited it grows considerably to around 8 inches. He is also very thick and has a few big veins than pop out- its perfect Wink

     
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    MadameLady    May 18, 2012  

    I havent measured cuz every time I go at it with my handy-dandy tape-measurer FI shoos me away! XD I'm guessing he's average, but D*MN BEES! :O Thats alot of 8-inchers! bravo fellas, bravo~

     
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    HisIrishPrincess    March 23, 2012  

    Mine's a grower too.  But he is definitely the best! 

     
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    HoneyBear    March 17, 2012   Texas/ Isla Mujeres

    I voted 5-6 but Im not really quite sure, since we have never measured with a ruler :D

    He is definitley much bigger than my ex- I feel sorry for the girl who ends up with him lol

     
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    ATP2011    March 20, 2009  

    What if someone has a FI/DH with <4 inches?

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    I married my man because he's a good 9 inches! LOL. I joke with him all the time that it was the number 1 reason I said yes. The sex is fantastic and even though people say that size doesn't matter it does for me :)  My ex was big too, but every guy before that was smaller 6 or less and could never get the job done if you know what I mean *wink wink* hahaha

     
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    panterapeach    April 2011  

    I wont say what I voted here but I did mention more than twice a day would be just ouch in another thread Wink

     
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    ILikePink    June 9, 2012   Minneapolis, MN

    I am casting an eye of doubt at those that answered 11+. I have only seen one that size, and it was monstrous. 

    SO is not the biggest I have been with, but I look at that as a plus. I'd say he is 6"-7", versus my ex that was 8"-9". I actually prefer to be able to walk after having sex. 

     
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    panterapeach    April 2011  

    @ILikePink: I agree, I have no idea how someone could handle 10+

    TMI but "bottoming out" doesnt feel good to me, it just hurts!

     

     
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    Bubu82    October 1, 2011   Indianapolis, IN

    I've never measured. I think my FI would get kinda pissed if I tried. So I will estimate his size as "big enough for me", lol!

    I also think over 10 inches would be nuts (no pun intended, but ha!).

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    lol, how many people had to do some "research" and measure just for this poll?

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    @ILikePink:I slept with a guy once that gave me that same feeling, hurt to walk the next day, and sitting down, huh, forget it

     
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    jwinnings      

    I wonder if anyone here is sizing there guy up on purpose and over ten inches sounds painful!  Maybe it's just my hometown but all of my girlfriends have only been with dudes around 5-6(from what they've told me).  My SO is a 7(I measured hahaha) and very thick which is the best part! He's not that small flaccid but grows also.

     
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    CaraMia10    October 10, 2010   Loma Linda, CA

    @ILikePink: I'm glad someone said it...

    Average, I think, is 4-5". So yes, my guy is average @ a little over 5. But he is very thick and that's what I really love!

     
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    SBourgeous    February 1, 2011  

    10"? C'mon, that doesn't even seem useful.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    @Bubu82: "I've never measured. I think my FI would get kinda pissed if I tried. So I will estimate his size as 'big enough for me'"

    Exactly!  I honestly don't care how big he is nor do I have anything to compare him to as DH is my first.  IMO, he seems quite long and thick when arosed but all I care is that he knows how to use what he's got.  And trust me, that isn't a problem! :)

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    @HoneyBear:EX was the teeny tiny? I work as an RN & let me tell ya, I've seen some bitty ones. I just wonder, how do you satisfy a woman with it, must have good oral skills;-P

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    @SBourgeous:I don't know about other bees but 10+" wouldn't be useful here, like sombeody else said, bottoming out isn't fun. Forget the backdoor!

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    I feel for the bees out there who have 4-5" @ home, hope their SOs know how to work the tounge

     
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    Anxiouspeanut    November 5, 2011   Vancouver, Canada ( Wedding in Vegas )

    My ex's was 5-6.  My man now and forever is a good 8 Inches excited and thick too.

     

    I also agree with the 10"... how can that feel good?

     
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    dunlapsangel    May 19, 2012  

    @wbrn: Aww I don't think that's fair! I voted for 5in but I didn't measure it. I have no complaints even though I've been with bigger! Sometimes it does depend on what he can do with it and how nice and thick things are.

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    @dunlapsangel:totally agree on the thickness;)

     
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    CaraMia10    October 10, 2010   Loma Linda, CA

    @dunlapsangel: I agree. It really doesn't matter what he's packing, as long as he knows what to do with it. I'd rather have a thick one than a long, skinny one. And as I said before, 5" is the average.

     
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    Aubergold    May 2012   DC metro

    omg <3" and >9" both sound absolutely mortifying.

     
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    dunlapsangel    May 19, 2012  

    @wbrn: ;) I love that 5"is average lol

     
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    miss ranunculus    June 2, 2012   Columbus...reluctantly moving to Austin

    I've never measured my FI - I think length wise he's right around average (or slightly smaller).  The good news is he has good girth and even better news is he knows *exactly* what to do with it.  He may be smaller than some of the guys I've been with before, but the sex is better than all of them.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    DH is about 7 and a good girth - it is a perfect fit for me!

     
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    littlemissmango    July 7, 2012   Oahu, HI

    Come on... I also call BS on 11 people voting "10+"... y'all are overestimating. Lol.

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    FI is 7 and absolutely perfect for me. I've been with guys smaller (and bigger) and without the same amount of girth and I can honesly say that FI is the best fit!

     
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    FutureMrs.Taylor    June 12, 2010   Shawnee, KS

    Around 7-8. In the beg. of our relationship I loved it, but for some reason after I had our daughter it is very painful now.

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    Never measured but I would estimate 7". He's slightly bigger than my past partners but I'm not complaining! ;)

     
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    Meealissa    July 30, 2011  

    He's a grower,about 7.5 with good girth.  It's great!  I wouldn't want it to be any larger. And to the chick who said she "feels" for the girls with the 4-5 inchers...that was a little ridiculous, 5 is average and I've been with guys that size and the sex could be good.  Baby carrot size is when it gets depressing, and I HAVE seen that before...

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    I'm not going to comment on my DH's size because I don't think he'd quite appreciate that (nor would I appreciate him talking about the details of any of my private parts!) nor do have I actually measured anyway, (plus he's my only so i have no one to compare him to) but, I will share a mortifying story that does not involve him.

    I was about 14 or so, maybe 15, and my siblings and I were visiting my "step mom." My dad and she had gotten a divorce a few months before that, but we stopped by to visit her since we had grown attached to her. Well, I guess she had started dating and I have no idea what possed ther to tell me about a recent roll in the hay she had. APPARENTLY the guy was so small that she couldn't even tell if he was in or not. It was AWFUL! I lost a lot of respect for her that day. honestly, who says that to a 14/15 year old??? I wasn't even a wild child. I was quite modest! Mortifying.

     

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