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    pren79    10/17/09   SF Bay Area

    This problem kinda bewilders me. I have a ballgown dress. I'll be wearing it for photo sessions that span at least 4 hrs: (getting ready, bridal session, bride& groom session, bridal party session, and ceremony). HOw does one with a ballgown (or any dress with sizable dimensions) travel (e.g. in a vehicle), and use the bathroom?

     
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    Mrs. Moonbaby    Nov. 8th, 2009   Houston, TX

    lmao. i've been wondering the same thing. though my dress isn't that TOO big, but still... how??!

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    with alot of help i suspect :)

     
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    glowawber    4/18/10   New Haven, CT

    2dBride had an awesome post about that here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/psa-peeing-while-wearing-your-dress

     
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    Kay7    05/15/10   Chicago

    heh.... having been in a few weddings as a bridesmaid before I have witnessed just exactly how the bride uses the bathroom... (or at least a bride with a ballgown...)

    she takes a couple of friends with her in the stall to hold her dress up for her so it doesn't somehow end up in the toilet... and often this means the bathroom stall door is hanging open so everyone can fit in...

    it's not pretty but its necessary to keep your dress from getting wet or dirty...

     

     
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    JeniRae    May 2, 2009   Pittsburgh

    VERY CAREFULLY! Wink

     
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    jduck84    August 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I forget where I read this, but I heard it's good to enlist a good friend or mom, sister, etc. to help you. Ditto on the stuff from glowawber/2dBride above, and also (if you're comfortable with it): have your helper enter the stall first, then you enter. Your helper will hitch up the skirt while you do your business, and I think you get the picture from there. Heehee!

     
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    pren79    10/17/09   SF Bay Area

    Thanks for the responses! I love 2Dbride's PSA.

     
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    Johnsbride09    7/3/2009   Northern Virginia

    BACKWARDS!!

    Seriously!  Face towards the toilet instead of away, it's soooo much easier, it totally removes the train issue.

     
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    JoonBee    06/2010  

    This post reminded me of this video clip.  It should help. lol

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mYeJLJuSU6E

     
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    texasmeredith      

    I've been a bridesmaid too many times to count.  Usually the bride backs into the handicapped stall and a couple of people hold the back of the dress up over her head.  

     
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    ggsb    June 13, 2009   Atlanta/North Georgia

    like texasmeredith I've done the bridesmaid thing 7 times....and it's typically involved holding a dress so someone can pee.  I had my MOH help me once, and decided it was crazy to need to pull someone else away from the fun, so I figured out the same thing  2Dbride did, and it worked like a charm the remainder of the evening!

     
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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    In addition to having a friend hold up the back of my dress, I found her help invaluable in being able to reach the toilet paper!  In a ball gown, you're not exactly showing off anything to the friend helping.  I did go successfully by myself at our hotel before I took off my dress, but I'd enlist help while it's around!

     
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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    I know this is awful .... but seriously pee in a cup (in the bathroom of course .. alone) hahaha. just kidding ...

    Seriously

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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    I didn't have a big ball gown, but after the ceremony and pictures, I took a potty break and took my dress completely off!  Thankfully it was easy to take on/off, not a lot of buttons or anything.  Then I didn't go again until the end of the night.

     
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    Bride2bee2009    9/6/09   Westchester County, New York

    the backwards thing worked like a charm for me. I didn't need anyone's help!

     
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    Cleo B    August 22, 2009   NYC

    Seriously, it sounds rediculous, but if you don't want the hassle (or embarassment) of having "assistance" just straddle the toilet face first! My make-up artist told me that little gem right before I walked down the aisle, and I have to say it was one of the BEST pieces of advice I got! Not only was it SO easy, but those two minutes alone in the stall are the only moments you actually get to collect your thoughts.

     
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    LittleBear    June 28, 2009   Chicago/beach wedding in NC

    My friend came in the stall with me, I took my dress off completly, went to the bathroom while she held it, then put it back on. It was a bonding experience for us and the dress did not get "hurt" in any way!

     
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    mcnetn3    August 13, 2011   North Carolina

    My sister had a ball gown and when she had to go, one of us went with her.  She lifted the front and we grabbed the back while she used the bathroom backwards (i.e. she walked right over the toilet and squatted facing the wall!)-- crazy stuff.... I will think twice before having a dress like that!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    OMG that video was hilarious. I have seriously spent some time thinking about this already (and not even yet engaged!). I am a person who has to pee every couple hours anways... especially when I'm excited/nervous... so this would be a BIG issue for me! I decided I simply will. not. buy. a dress I can't pee in alone. This isn't a huge sacrifice because I have no interest in a ball gown or a really big dress. But, just like you should always sit in pants before you buy them... I will definitely be mock-peeing in my dress before I order it jsut to make sure I can!!

     

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