Post # 1
Our wedding is coming up fast and so is my anxiety. No, not for the marriage part of it but with all the details of planning I don’t even know how I can keep track. Tonight I spoke with our photographer again and after my FI’s surprise change of first look pictures (due to the location of our horse that will be used in pictures) we had to redo the whole schedule. That worked out and then the churches wedding coordinator called and we went over a few things and then we talked with the DJ. After that I talked with my mom where she of course brought up more issues and I just want to scream I can not take care of everyone all at once. I am sorry that one thing or another is not ideal for a person but I can not make everyone including my Fiance and I happy all at the same time.
People always ask “Are you excited” and I always think “yes, I am estatic that this is almost over.” I know I will be so happy on that day but right now I just need the stress and constant worry to go away. AAAhhhhh 17 days and counting…
Anyone else feel this way as your day got closer??
Post # 3
@Tina.Baker: OMG first off, date twin. Second off, I so agree! I’m sitting here making envelops stressing over seating charts. WHO STRESSES OVER SEATING CHARTS?!
Post # 4
@gogogiraffes: The seating charts and RSVP stragglers have about driven me crazy. Anyone who has yet to RSVP and decides to show up is at this point relegated to the old lady table or the kids who were invited but are somehow coming anyway table.
And everytime someone asks how things are going, I tell them how excited I am for the wedding, and how I’m almost as excited for it to be over!
Post # 5
OMG…I’m with you and I’m 3 days away!!! Take the week off work if you can before the wedding, trust me so far it’s been the best thing I could have done. I’ve gotten a lot done but still…more to do and all the calls and last minute changes! Take it one thing at a time…that’s what’s been helping me, and yes I do understand about the anxiety it’s horrible for me right now!
I have a hard time answering that question…sometimes yes and most time I don’t know how to answer as my brain goes into “Yes I have a ton to do how can I get excited…I’ll let you know later, leave me alone until then” LOL
I know the day of, I’ll be so thrilled! Until then Lord help me! 🙂
PS…oh the seating chart…don’t get me started I had four more drop off from my reception today alone…seriously people stop saying you can’t come to both events…that’s part of a wedding and your pissing me off!!! Be prepared for the frustrations and multiple changes. I had a wedding break down earlier today.
Post # 6
@yearns4god: We are going to a baseball game for our recepetion (actually whole wedding is there) and our section is 11 seats. ELEVEN. What. The… anyway…
We have a few people who aren’t staying for the game, grandmas and stuff, and I almost want to say, well then you don’t get food. I’m not paying for your flippin seat for food and a game! That you aren’t staying for.
I can’t take the whole week off before. But my work is EXTREMELY flexable with hours. And I do have Thursday and Friday before hand. And Thursday is my rehersal walk thru. As we can’t have a rehersal dinner before.
And I need to give my guy our day of stuff. And UGH. FI’s dad REFUSES to RSVP. And I was like, that’s fine, when you walk up to get your ticket, IT WON’T BE THERE…
Post # 7
Any other bees struggling through the last stretch?