(Closed) How does your SO feel about you going to a nightclub or having a girl’s night

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

He doesn’t care.  I don’t go out to dance with guys so it’s a moot point.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

FI doesn’t care. He just likes to see me have fun. And he hates that kind of scene so he is glad my friends can go with me instead of him!!

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I go out probably once every other week to a bar or to a club to go dancing with my girl friends. DH doesn’t care. He totally trusts me and has no issues.  I taught dance classes in college so I actually even will dance with other men at salsa clubs and things, and he really could care less. Although I would go to like a hip hop club and grind with someone for obvious reasons. 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MlleBrielle:My fiance feels exactly the same way :).

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Well, I’m not a nightclub kind of girl, but he would be totally cool with it if I wanted to go.  He always encourages me to get together with the girls and plan a night out.  I’m kind of a homebody, so it doesn’t happen all that often.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I didn’t go to clubs when I was single, it’s just not my thing. If I wanted to go I’m sure he wouldn’t mind, he might be confused b/c its’ not normal for me though. I go to dinner, movies, game night, or just hang out. Oh, and fro yo!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

He’s totally cool with it, but I rarely go to a ‘night club’ any more.  I do bars and lounges with my girlfriends.   He does the same with his guy friends, and I’m fine with it. This won’t change after we marry.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Well, FI has always struggled with some jealousy issues so he always says “be good!” and will ask when I get home. (i’m proud of him because we’ve worked through a lot of these issues throughout our relationship and the’ve gotten a lot better) But he has nothing to worry about. I’m not too hoochy when I dance and he knows I don’t dane with guys. Also, he is good with me going out because he knows I do so much for us and him that I deserve it. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

He doesn’t care. He knows I’m not going to be dancing with guys so it just doesn’t matter.

And like pp’s said, he likes that I have friends to go so he doesn’t have to go with me 😉

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I don’t go out often. Girls nights with my friends are pretty tame. During the summer my FI usually goes up to my family’s lake property for the 4th of July before I do while I hang around the cities and go out for my friend’s birthday. He doesn’t worry at all and I don’t really give him any reason to worry.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Mine doesn’t care- in fact I think he encourages it. We both need time out with other people besides each other. The fact is, neither one of us get out very often. I just went away for the night out of town with the girls (although all family) and he stayed home and took care of our toddler.  I rarely go out though, I’m not into the bar scene much anymore but he wouldn’t care if I did.

He gets out even less than I do. Most of his friends are out of town but when they come to town, he goes out and it’s usually not for long.

I completely trust my fiance to be out without me and he feels the same about me.  Maybe because we’re getting older and going out isn’t what it used to be for either of us 🙂

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m not a nightclub kind of girl, but he doesn’t care when we have a girls’ night at a bar or someone’s house or whatever. He probably wishes I did it more often so he could play video games and eat half gallons of ice cream and wings without my chirping at him, lol.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I actually just got back from a girls weekend out of state this past weekend.. FI didn’t care at all, he knows who I’m coming home too & after this many years he knows I won’t go anywhere or do anything I shouldn’t.. We are a lot a like & both know what boundries we wouldn’t want the other to cross.. On the other hand I think I’d have a harder time if it were him going out of town with his boys.. I know its stupid though..

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