Post # 1
Well when I first got with my SO um he didn’t like what he saw done below. I wasn’t all natural that just isn’t me. I trimmed though so it was neat and no other guy had ever had a problem with it. Well with SO he has a hair phobia he thinks it’s totally gross on a girl. Needless to say when he saw down below he totally freaked and refused to do anything. I ended up starting to shave because of it. I had always thought any guy who wanted a girl to shave there was a total perv but I guess I was wrong. Anyway I now like shaving there I feel more clean and it makes me a lot more sensitive down there. How does your SO like you and what do you perfer?
Post # 3
I’ll keep myself as a I please, and I don’t really think that is anyone else’s business or that anyone else should dictate how that is.
Post # 4
Ha, I actually asked my hubs this randomly one day. His response was that it didn’t matter too much to him and that it really was up to me. He only preferred that it wasn’t extremely bushy. Apparently, some bush is OK.
In college I used to shave it almost all off and the guy I was dating didn’t like it. He said it was too much like pre-pubecent which I guess I can understand so he had to see hair.
I actually prefer the happy medium. Clean but still some hair. Unfortunately, since I have not seen the Mrs. in months, I usually just use my clippers to make it look decent.
Post # 5
Hah! He was smart enough not to say anything if he didn’t like what he saw! He prefers less hair than I do (I’m in the it looks too young if there’s no hair camp) but he also knows that it’s my choice.
Post # 6
Mine doesn’t seem to care as long as I keep it neat and tidy. But whether it is bare or some hair – doesn’t seem to matter to him. I can tell he’s not a fan when it’s all grown out to the point that I need another wax though – but he knows he has to deal since it has to get to a certain length first.
Post # 7
For the looks, mine doesn’t mind some hair as long as it’s neat; but for the feelings, he prefers it bare – during intercourse, but mainly because hair in the mouth is not a good feeling, sorry Too Much Information.
Good for him, because I’ve been shaving/waxing for years now; and knowing that this is how we both prefer it, we paid to have the hair permanently removed with laser through our common finances. It feels cleaner (not that it’s not clean if it’s not bare, but I feel cleaner still), I never have to worry about having hair out of my bathing suit…
I really, really do not think that having hair would make me feel more like an adult.. I have boobs and a husband!!
Post # 8
I shave it all– maybe TMI– but really we’re all girls here 🙂
I hate when people say it’s like a little girl- first of all, that’s SICK! to even think about it like that- and 2, I feel much clear and neat that way.
Also, Especially now that it’s summer I hate when you see those girls at the beach or those chicks by the pool that obviously don’t shave or didn’t remember to that day when they knew they were going to put on a swimsuit– eew! We’re all not looking at eachother crotchs obviously- but it’s seriously obvious for some gals that they should take the time to clean it up a little bit.
Post # 10
My Fiance is nice about it and not (too) pushy but he’s made it very clear that he prefers …uh bare floors to carpeting. I like it trimmed and neatly manicured, but not bare (it’s just too painful/expensive/difficult to maintain). He suggested laser treatments, but the thought of hair permanently gone is too weird for me. Once in a while I’ll shave or wax as a treat. He’s already all happy cause I said I’d do a Brazilian before the wedding as a trial run and one for the honeymoon. Sometimes I wish his preference was less extreme, but then I have a friend whose husband prefers as much hair as possible down there and I don’t think I’d like that any better.
Post # 11
At least I’m not alone thinking that the little girl argument is ridiculous!
Post # 12
I have been shaving since I was in high school. I can’t stand hair down there! My Fiance likes me shaved too, but doesn’t get too worked up if I have been too busy to keep up on it as much as i would like
Post # 13
I dont think shaving is like a little girl or that it means a guy is a perv it gives them a chance to see and guys like that. Okkkk we are all women here 🙂 Mine doesn’t like mine completely shaved all the time he likes a little hair but then again as long as its not all grown out he gets excited
Post # 14
@jadeblue–lol @preferring “bare floors to carpeting”. My Fiance is the same way. He likes it all gone. It used to feel weird for me to have it that way, but now I like it so much more also! So much neater and cleaner.
Post # 15
I used to shave it all but haven’t really had the motivation lately. Once I have money again, I will start getting bikini waxes to clean it up. I’m not sure I want to be completely hairless forever though so I wouldn’t be keen on laser hair removal.
Post # 16
- Wedding: June 2010 - Indiana Memorial Union
No preference. I’d be pretty irritated if a guy tried to dictate to me how I approached that. Do you get to decide how he does his?