(Closed) How early is too early?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would wait until you are less than a year out.  There are a lot of girls who chose BMs too early and then grew apart from the people that they chose.

Post # 4
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I would ask your Future Sister-In-Law now.  If she knows you have asked you Maid/Matron of Honor she may be getting concerned if you don’t ask her soon.  THere is no harm in asking her since you know she will definitely be in your bridal party.  For the other ladies.. I would wait until you are about 9 months out.  Plenty of time for them to be involved in picking dresses and hosting things like a shower and a bacheloretty party… but not so far in advance that you are likely to grow apart and regret your decision.

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