Post # 1
My RSVP date was couple days ago. I have sent a general text message to the last few that didn’t rsvp. In which, one was one of my three BM that pulled out of my bridal party few months ago (casually over the phone because she didn’t feel like it anymore). Since then, our friendship went down hill. Consequently, I didn’t want to have her girl as my flower girl anymore, and have not heard from her since.
Anyway, she didn’t reply to this text message and still has not sent her RSVP card. I don’t know if she is coming but I don’t feel the effort on her behalf. Her partner has not replied to my fiance’s buck invitation and tried to get in contact several time with him but no response back.
After everything that happened with her, I don’t wish her to be at our wedding. But after not hearing back from her, should I classify her as a no or should I get in touch with her once again (via text or facebook)? I refuse to make the effort to call her after all the issues I had with her.
Post # 3
I would probably just send her another text and/or facebook message and say something like “we have to turn the numbers into our caterer, and since we haven’t heard from you guys I’ll have to mark you as a no, we’ll miss you at the wedding!”. Sorry this is happening to you!
Post # 4
- Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall
I would also suggest sending her another follow up text or facebook message/email saying something like “I haven’t heard from you regarding attending the wedding so I’m going to assume you’re a ‘no’ please let me know if I’m wrong.”
She should know that you need to know one way or the other for your final numbers so her being stubborn makes zero sense.
Post # 5
Looks like they’re really busy with their own lives eh? Maybe they’re having relationship issues?
Post # 6
Add another poll option. You only have “yes”.
My answer is no. Leave her alone. It is pretty clear she isn’t coming and needs some space.