How far in advance to send bachelorette invitations?

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
6812 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Are you actually sending real invitations? I think it depends on how you guys came upon the date – did everyone agree to it already? Or was it picked by one person?

The way I did it when I planned it for my friend was that I picked the date of the shower and then sent an email (sorta a “save the date”) to let everyone know it’s the night of the shower. Then, I went on paperless post (it’s a website where you can send pretty invites) and sent invites that way. We got a good turnaround and I probably did it over a month in advance. However, I gave no one an option of picking another date – so if the whole group had agreed on a date, I probably would have never done invites/rsvps.

Post # 5
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Invites for my bachelorette were sent out two MONTHS before hand!

If you’re inviting by e-mail/FB, I think the date is probably okay, but if you’re sending out paper invites, you may want to push it back a little!

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