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How I asked my Bridesmaids! :-)

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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    I have been in so many weddings yet never have been the bride. I always said that if I ever had a wedding that I would want to make those that were part of my special day feel like they are special and that I am grateful for them. Lets be honest.. being asked to be in a wedding is a huge honor, but it is also a huge burdon!! so I wanted to make sure my girls all knew that I knew what they were ding for me by making their invite into the wedding a special one!

    I had each girl a shirt made to be used later for the bachelorette party ( they have a comedic spin on them . hope no one is offened!) also created each girl a poem ( my best friend/ long time best friend) is the only one that was different. and last I created a email acct using yahoo.com for each girl with a password and ahead of time sent each email account a email specific to each girl letting them know what they mean to me and how much I love them.

    I found these awesome hat boxes that I used to pack them away everything fit perfect ( also subbed for a great keepsake or starge for the girls) I made cards giving the girls the email account information and passwords to log in, then made the poems personalized to each girl and the shirts topped it all off!! hope you enjoy.. I had alot of fun with this and all the girls LOVED them... they cried when the read the poem the burst into laughter when they saw the shirts and then real water works when they finisjed it off with the special email.

    Two of my girls live out of town so I had to send them to them. The other three I had meet me at a resturant for "lunch" before they came along to a bridal show. I arived early and enlisted the help of the waiter who was awesome by the way, and he came out when I was "in the bathroom" with each girls box. I got to see their faces and took lots of pictures.... the bridal show was alot of fun after that lunch !! :-)

    Also check out how we asked the groomsmen! they are special too!!  http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/creative-way-to-ask-your-groomsmen 

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    MademoiselleL    August 24, 2012   Vancouver, BC (wedding in Maui)

    Wow don't show this to my bridesmaids!  I pretty much said "Hey, do you wanna be my bridesmaid?" And they said "Yeah!" and that was it!

    Very sweet.

     
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    MrsRuby    June 2011  

    ithink they will love it!! you put alot of work into their gifts!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    thanks ladies!!! they loved them!! I am glad I did it!! I am a little behind on getting this uploaded on here...

    for the person that didn't think that it was a good idea.... can you please explain why ??

     
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    DaisyCakes    December 2, 2012  

    AW! So cute :)  I like the comedic "twist" to the shirts!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    thanks !!!! I just saw the MANY spelling errors in this thread.. wow!! I am sorry ladies!! its been a long day !! lol

     
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    Nicoley1985    October 6, 2012   Living in Boston // wedding in Bethlehem, PA

    You put sooo much thought into these, I love it! I have asked 2 out of 4 so far or I would steal some of your ideas ;) I just gave each girl a Bridesmaids DVD and a hand-written card with a "Top 5 reasons you should be my bridesmaid" list. FSIL and MOH loved it so far! One of my friends asked me to be a bridesmaid over facebook chat, and I was still thrilled! But I think personalized gifts really add something special.

     
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    TheLionQueen    June 2012  

    Oh wow! How sweet of you. I just sent cards :-/

     
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    trbickham00    August 4, 2012   conroe, tx

    that is such a good idea! love it!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    @Nicoley1985: sounds like you are well on your way !! :-) .. I have always been super excited and very honored to even be asked in every wedding that I have ever been a part of, I just wanted to make it about them cause it wont be long and the focus will shift as the date gets sooner!! Facebook.. now that one I have not had happen yet, phone, text and in person, .. yep, facebook that would be a new one for me! :-) Congrats by the way!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    @TheLionQueen: thanks you!! Cards are great too!! Everyone loves a sweet card! keepsakes!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    @trbickham00: awww.. yay!!!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    here are some shots of the girls getting their " Will you be my... ?" gifts!

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    VCChace    May 4, 2013   Melrose,MA

    I love it... I wish I could get my girls together and give them their boxes together... I will post later the ones I made. They are not NEARLY as fancy as yours.

     

     

     
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    organizedbride11    November 11, 2011   Illinois

    I love this!! And the shirts are very cute!!

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    SO SO CUTE! I wish I would've been more creative with my bridal party. I didn't really ask, all my girls knew before the engagement that they'd be in my wedding :P

     
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    vreelans    August 11, 2012   minneapolis, mn

    cute! where did you have those shirts made?!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    also you can check out how I asked our ring bearers here ! :-)

    http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/how-to-ask-your-ring-bearer?replies=1#post-2959345

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    @organizedbride11: thanks!!

     
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    DianaandBobby    April 7, 2012  

    @vreelans: i created them on this website..  http://www.customink.com/

     

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