Post # 1
Following up on my question from earlier about not even having an At-Home Reception (http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/no-at-home-reception-following-a-destination-wedding), I’m still not totally convinced that we shouldn’t have one. That being said, what I would really like to do is have a BBQ or something really casual, but that isn’t going to work in November/December in Canada 🙂
So, how long after our actually wedding to you think it would be appropriate to have an At-Home Reception? Would waiting till May or June be too long when we could actually have the BBQ?
Post # 3
We are having ours 3 months after the wedding. We are getting married in December and having the at home reception in March. I don’t think waiting until May or June is too long. We are also doing a casual BBQ at home reception except we rented out a brand new community center to hold ours, so it won’t be outside. We live in Seattle, so the weather is always unpredictable, which is why we decided to go this route.
Post # 4
If you want to be very technical, from an etiquette standpoint it’s considered a delayed reception up through the first year of marriage. After you’ve been married a year, it’s an anniversary party (or just a regular party that has nothing to do with your wedding).
Post # 5
We are going to have a reception at home a month after our DW. How many guests are you expecting? Have you thought about renting a hall and having a party?
Post # 6
I may be crazy but with my work I don’t get much vacation time so we’re doing it the very next weekend … Not have a destination persay.. my family is from one place and his family is from another.. so one place the first weekend the other the next
Post # 7
Ours is about three weeks after the wedding, about a week after we get home.
Post # 8
We are planning our DW for the 2nd week of May nest year and then having our reception in early July… so I guess just about 2 months after. FI and I live away from the majority of my family so I wanted it to be feasible for them to travel and come to both events if they want to.
Close friends of ours had their wedding on a cruise last November and then Had the reception on December 30th as kind of an early NYE party and reception which was nice.
I think it really depends on what suits you best!!
Post # 9
We may have a one year anniversary party in lieu of the AHR. I’d think 0-8+ months after is OK for a celebartion party (although I’m not aware of any had set rule). After 9 might as well call it an anniversary party!
If we don’t host SOMETHING at our home, our families we never get the chance to meet! They are at opposite ends of the country. At a minimum invite them all to our house for a mini vacation. One of those nights could be a party that includes local friends.
Post # 10
My wedding is May 17th and we are having our at home reception on July 6th.