Post # 1
We have under 5 months until our big day and my FI has still not decided!! He only has to choose two but he can’t make a decision. How long did your man wait before deciding on AND actually asking his men to stand up for him?? My FI is very nonchalant about it all.
Post # 3
October Bee here.. Mine still hasn’t decided, even though I picked my girls long ago, although I have not officially asked as I’m waiting on 1 item to add to their bridesmaid boxes.
Post # 4
@sillysillybee: We’re still a ways out, but FI hasn’t decided yet. He’s just like, let me know how many people I need and I’ll pick them out. All that’s for certain is my brother because I told FI that I wanted my brother to be a GM. My god-brother also wanted to be a GM…I had to explain to him that FI gets to pick that.
On the other hand, FI was a GM in a friend of ours wedding. Apparently the groom told the best man about 2 months in advance and told him to tell everyone else. Best man forgot and no one knew until a month beforehand. FI was already signed up to be in a marathon across the state that day. He ran the marathon, hopped in my car, got there half an hour before the ceremony started, showered and changed.
Post # 5
He chose his January 2011.
Post # 6
@sillysillybee: I actually have no idea lol He just kind of picked them up as he went haha
Post # 7
We have 5 months to go and he has only asked 2 of 6! He has decided on the other 4, but is procrastinating because he doesn’t want to ask over texting or a phone call. I want to reserve tuxes by March so I’m not stressing out last minute. His brother waited until 2 weeks before his wedding to reserve tuxes and I can’t handle that!
Post # 8
I think mine asked his groomsmen about a year out, but that’s probably because I bugged him so much about it … Otherwise he probably would’ve left it until the last possible second!
Post # 9
glad to see mine isnt the only one putting it off lol. got engaged in june and he hasnt decided yet, wedding is in august.