How long did it take you to fall in love?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How long did it take you to fall in love?
    a few days : (6 votes)
    7 %
    1 week : (1 votes)
    1 %
    2 weeks : (3 votes)
    3 %
    3 weeks : (10 votes)
    11 %
    4 weeks/month : (14 votes)
    16 %
    4-6 weeks : (4 votes)
    4 %
    6-8 weeks/2 months : (7 votes)
    8 %
    8-10 weeks : (4 votes)
    4 %
    10-12 weeks/3 months : (9 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7654 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @cooperlove: I jumped the gun, lol. He told me he loved me after a few days, and I told him I didn’t want to say it if I didn’t mean it, and he understand. A few days after that I told him because I truly did feel it. It felt different being with him. We are happily married 🙂

    Post # 4
    Member
    1470 posts
    Bumble bee

    @cooperlove:  I knew extremely quickly (I voted a month). I’ve never been in love before him but I’ve cared deeply for someone and that just pales in comparison to what I feel now. A month in I felt the twinges and it was kind of like a…I could never get enough of this feeling and it’s only grown over time. We said it after a month, him first but I don’t know how much longer I could have held it in anyway 🙂

    Post # 5
    msjackrabbitMember
    1080 posts
    Bumble bee

    Straight away. It was so different to anything I’d ever experienced before.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2419 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I knew within a couple of weeks that he was the “one,” as cliche as that sounds. But, we didn’t actually say it for about two months.

    Post # 7
    Member
    8418 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @cooperlove:  It took me about a month (we were LDR initially), but my husband said he was in love with me before I even knew he liked me lol.  We moved in together after about 7-8 weeks of dating.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2578 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We said “I love you” as friends before we started our relationship, so it happened right away. Over 12½ years later, we still say it multiple times a day. :]

    Post # 9
    Member
    459 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I voted three weeks. We met in college and were very good friends before we started dating. I’d even say he was my best male friend, and we had already said we loved each other, as friends, even before we started dating. Making the transition was so easy and natural. I think it was about three weeks into dating when I told him I was *in love* with him, but it might have been earlier. I knew immediately after our first kiss that there was no turning back and we’d be together for a long time, probably for good.

    Post # 10
    Member
    2571 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    It was about a month I think… He said it first after picking me up (we were LD) and I said it back later that same evening, lol

    Post # 11
    Member
    809 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    when we started officially dating, two months after we’d met, we were already deeeeeply in luurrve.

    also, you didn’t have the option ‘love at first sight’! 😛

    Post # 12
    Member
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    it was only a couple of weeks after dating and i knew that i enjoyed being with him.  we had not even been intimate yet.  i remember sitting together chatting and he put his hand on mine and held it.  he looked at me a bit differently and i remember thinking to myself, “omg, he’s falling in love with me”.  it wasn’t until a week or so later that i started feeling it, maybe i should say “allowed myself to feel it”.  once we both knew, we fell hard.

    Post # 13
    Member
    402 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    @cooperlove:  AI think FI was there before I was.  But then, I’ve had a rocky dating history and was probably more cautious than he was.

    In any case, it was FAST.  He says he knew from the minute he saw me, but I don’t believe in love at first sight 😛 We said it right around two months, with him being the initiator.  I remember being surprised when saying it back, realizing that I really, 100% meant it.  Up until then I didn’t think I did, or at least didn’t want to admit that I did. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    8905 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    I was in love with him before we started dating and we were just friends.  I was like 16 but it wasn’t just infatuation, it was really love.  (I can safely say that at age 31, lol.)

    Post # 15
    Member
    68 posts
    Worker bee

    6 months for me (three months sooner for him), and even still, the love that I felt then is nothing compared to what I feel now 🙂

    Post # 16
    Member
    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    It happened really quickly, but we didn’t say it to each other for a while. We started dating at 15 and at that age everyone says “I love you” after 10 minutes of “going out.” I didn’t want to just throw it around like that even though I think I knew for sure after about a month. I think it took around 3 months for us to actually say it. To this day, 12 years later, he still tells me he loves me 10+ times a day.

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