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    mrsbee    March 5, 2005   New York, NY

    It happened on our first date I must admit! How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Razz  And when we first met, it wasn't really a date, but it turned into a date.

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    Kara321    August 2010  

    We didn't kiss on our first date, just a hug.  But we definitely did on our second date, and then some.  I had drunk several drinks, so I blame the alcohol!

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    Liz.smith    May 23, 2009   TN

    We didn't actually start dating till almost a year after we met, and we kissed about 2-3 weeks after we met, so... -9 months or so? ha ha =D

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Our situation was a little different, I think we kissed at the end of our third day of "hanging out." How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Razz

     
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    kourtann    10/17/2009  

    Like you mrs. bee, we kissed on our first date. And our lips have been stuck together ever since! lol

     
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    Niki    05/31/2008  

    First date.

     
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    Sweet10ve    November 27, 2010   California

    My fiance and I didn't kiss until our third date.  I still remember it vividly... even though it's been 9 years since we first started dating.  It was raining outside and he was walking me back to the car after dinner.  We were walking past a lamppost and he stopped all of a sudden.  I looked up at him and he just smiled at me... and said "you're going to have to kiss me someday, let's start now..." From then on, we've been inseparable.....

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    December    December 12, 2008   Minneapolis,MN/Jackson,MS

    I bet you that I am the only one on Weddingbee who had this long of a wait (though I will be pleasantly surprised if I find otherwise!) -- till the wedding day. We knew we wanted to wait for sex till we were married, and we both that if we started kissing, it would be IMMENSELY harder to keep that promise to ourselves. So our first kiss happened when the officiant said "You may kiss the bride." :)

     
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    Soon2BeMrsC    March 20, 2010   Wine Country

    Our first kiss was on our second date.  I thought for sure he would kiss me at the end of our first date, but he didn't even seem to try!  All of a sudden I thought, "Was our wonderful evening out even really a date?"  He made things clear the second time around.  I like to think he was too intimidated by my beauty to attempt a kiss on the first date. 

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    ChaiAnkh99    August 12, 2011   Boston

    First date. We had already known each other two years. I was also away for the first two months that we really started getting to know each (via the internet), so if we had been in the same place for those two months, it probably would've happened sooner.

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    mssushi    March 2009   Hershey, PA / Kaneohe, HI

    The mister and I dated for about 2 months before we had our first "date". We kind of just hung out (either at home or at the bar). But he did give me a peck the first time we hung out.

     
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    powderpuff    July 11, 2009   Chicago

    We kissed on our third date. It was really nice. :)

     
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    wintersprincess    December 11, 2009   Metroit Detroit, MI

    We first dated when we were in 8th grade (11 long years ago!), so that was the first time we kissed. This time around, it was on our first date. We just have this chemistry between us, and neither of us could resist :)

     
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    chemchopity    10/04/2008   Dayton

    first date, but i didn't think i would date him for very long. silly me, he was so perfect for me and i couldn't even see it.

     
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    bookworm    August 1, 2009   Oklahoma City, OK

    @ december -- you're not the only one with a long wait......although min wasn't quite as long!  We also knew we wanted to wait for sex till we were married, so we decided to wait to kiss till we were engaged!  It was about 9 months, but well worth the wait!  :)

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    quiche    May 2, 2009   Chicago

    Umm...about an hour? 

     
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    Newport Nuptials    Fall 2010   Rhode Island / Massachusetts

    Our first date was in October, I said this will never work (we were both painfully shy!), then in February I came home after a night out with friends (we lived in the same dorm) and I kissed him. It was the best kiss ever :)

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    CaitlinRivera    August 14, 2010   Seville, Spain

    I think that we were seeing eachother for a good 3 weeks-a month before we 1st kissed! It mostly ha to do with me avoiding it becoming a relationship  at first bc it's not what I was looking for. It just grew into on! How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Wink

     
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    EAQ219    May 22, 2010   Bethesda, MD

    Well, we met in July '05 (online, shh) and didn't physically meet until September '05. We were in college so we went to a bar, got ridiculously drunk, and kissed in the alley. The next day I pretended it never happened and I think he did, too. A few days later I went to his apartment to watch a movie and then we had our first "official" kiss. We didn't have our first date until a few weeks later! Ha...tell me I'm not the only one!

     
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    ES123    April 25, 2009   Laurel, MD

    Hmmm...we had been on a date for a few hours by the time of our first kiss. How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Biggrin

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Like Lillindy, we kissed on our 3rd day of hanging out.  It was not really a date, but a ski weekend between a couple of friends.  I prefaced the weekend by saying nothing was going to happen between us, and making him sleep on the floor!

     
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    alli    September 6, 2008   Minnesota

    5 months!  We were both each other's first boy/girlfriend and were both very nervous/shy about pretty much every aspect of dating.  I think he tried to kiss me once before then, but I freaked out and turned my head and he kissed my cheek....

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    second date.

     
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    cupcake    September 20, 2008   Philadelphia

    Uhhhh we kissed the night we met, haha.... but to be fair, we had known each other for a whole 4 hours!  ;-) 

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    We'd known each other for awhile, but our first kiss was on New Year's Eve ... Officialy started dating 17 days later, but we count New Year's as our anniversary because we've spent three or four days a week together since then!

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    rnc620    June 20, 2009   STL

    This is bad.. but.. I couldn't remember.  I just had to text FI at work to ask him.  I thought we probably had kissed on the first date based on our personal "track records"  (*blush*).  But he informed me that I was mistaken.  Though neither of us are sure exactly we think it was our second official date, outside the bar as we were leaving.  I was toasty after a bottle of wine and had he not been a gentleman and sent me home I would have gone home with him... yay him!

     
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    hesallmine    4/25/09   Bear Creek Mountain Resort

    we actually kissed the night we met also... we met around 10:30 and hung out talking til about 4am.  He didn't know how to get back to the highway from where we went to a midnight breakfast, so I drove my car and he followed.  I stopped on the side of the street before the highway to say goodnight and we kissed.  It was something special I tell ya.  :)

     
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    Three months.  THREE MONTHS! 

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    I would say it was at least, at least, 3 or 4 hours into our first date.  But then I'm a bit conservative that way.  How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Wink

     
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    Miss Marshmallow    August 1, 2009  

    definitely a few months!  looonggg time

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    It was about two months into dating. I wanted it to be a special moment because I was pretty sure he was going to be my last first kiss (as was he).  But i got impatient and the perfect first kiss turned into a first make-out session in the dorm room! 
    Our relationship sort of evolved and we never had a "we're bf/gf" moment like I thought we would so we consider the first date the beginning of the realtionship, although you could argue it started both before and/or after the first date.

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    I knew him for about 1 hour before we kissed, adult beverages were in play How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Wink

     
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    jhphi    January 1, 2008  

    First date-- we both just knew pretty much straightaway.

     
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    Jessica Snaptacular Photos    April 26, 2008   Houston, TX

    First date-we connected immediately and talked for hours. We actually got kicked out of the diner because we were there too long! We kissed before we parted ways. And then I went to go see him again the next day!

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    katrinab    July 11, 2009   Boston, MA

    First date was three weeks AFTER our first kiss. Oops How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Redface

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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    First date....so about three hours? :)

     
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    Hobochic    9/25/09   Hoboken, NJ

    On our first date...after knowing each other seven years. :)

     
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    glitter    June 2009   Los Angeles, CA

    We smooched on our first date. I always joke with Mr. G that he was rather "easy". How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Wink

     
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    yoyohanna    June 6, 2009   Vancouver, BC

    We'd been friends for about a year and a half and had been doing a lot of "hanging out" in the two months prior to "US."  We were watching a movie together when I asked him "are you going to kiss me or what??"  He did.  We did.  When we stopped I had to clarify "so, are we like... boyfriend and girlfriend now?"  and he's said, "yeah, I guess we are!" We've been such shameless kissers since and getting in less than four months YAY!!!

     
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    msbelgianian    5/16/2009   Chicago, IL

    First date = arm pat.  Second date = hug.  Third date = kiss. How long did you date before you first kissed? :  wedding kiss Icon Wink

     
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