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I have to admit, I jumped into bed (alright, technically it was an air mattress since we were camping) with FI on the second date. Is it something I'm proud of? Eh, not really but it all worked out in the end :-). So, how long did you wait before sleeping with your SO/FI/DH?
I think you need a poll with this one so not everyone has to admit how fast it was! We pretty much did it before we dated... ; )
5 weeks, which seemed SUPER fast to me because he was my first bf after my "hs sweetheart".
lol Funny question. I feel the same as you about my first time. I had known him for 2 years, but we had actually been going out for 6 months. He was my VERY first (I was 15 when we got together) so I felt it was too soon. I had expectations of my first time being with someone I had been with for a long time and I wanted to be older. So I was not proud of myself at ALL. LUCKILY, like you, it all worked out lol I have been with him for almost 7 years now.
We waited about 9 months after we started dating (about 1 1/4 years from meeting). We were both young and it was the first time for both of us. I'm glad we waited for a while - it gave us time to get to know each other. My family (and I) were very conversative/ religious growing up and I spent a lot of time thinking about what type of relationship I wanted with my BF (i.e. how physical it would be). I'm glad I made the choices I/we did.
a little over a year! it was the first time for both of us (:
We waited six months (it was actually our six month anniversary) to have sex and it was the first time for both of us. I was glad we waited a bit because I was much more comfortable by that time than I would have been had we done it sooner.
Well we had know each other for four months including the time we started dating. However it was a month after we offically got together. We just felt it was right for us and it sort of just happened we didn't plan it. We were both each other first which is what we both always wanted but we don't have sex now. We are trying to abstain until we get married although we have yet to get engaged.
Shoot I voted less than a month.. but it was less than a month since we we're official. It was actually a bit more than a month after our first date.
It was 4 months, the longest I've ever had to wait!LMAO (HE made ME wait, I was the one pushing him.LOL)
It will end up being around 3 and a half years- waiting for the wedding
It was pretty soon for us...our third date. It was so unlike me, but the chemistry between us was and is intense! And I wouldn't change it for anything.
our first date. LOL
We had known each other for over a year, but it was the night of our first date... it just happened. But it's been great. He moved in 2 months later and it's the best relationship that I've ever been in!
I am sooo not usually agressive, but I had gotten out of my marriage (yay!) and gone right into a two year relationship (I'm relationship girl) and finally just wanted a damn fling! All my other friends have had a one night stand, usually in college, and I had never had one. I guess he wouldn't have counted anyway since I actually knew him for about 4 months at work but he was 7 years younger, suuuuper cute and I just wanted to do something crazy!
I knew he liked me and I liked him. We went out together after work to shoot some pool and went back to his place to watch a movie and I actually made a move! Lol - so not like me! So I guess we did it on our first date!
It was supposed to be a one time crazy thing but it's been 7 years now, so I guess I'm STILL relationship girl, even when I try not to be! lol
ETA: No regrets AT ALL! We feel like we just had explosive chemistry and after trying to be a wild woman and ending up as a girlfriend instead we still always laugh about what ho's we were that night!
21 months since meeting, 3 months into dating and he was my very first :)
I voted "Less than a week after your first date".
It was actually before we were even officially "dating". We were best friends for about a year before that, and it ended up turning into more. After that came the conversation "so I guess we're dating now?".
It was about 10 days from our first date. By that point, I knew that we had something special and that we would be together for a long while.
exactly one week after we made it official which was two weeks after our accident first date...would have been sooner, but i made like a lightning and bolted when he gave me a tour to his bedroom. I was having thoughts of being in his bed...which was soooo uncharacteristic of me because I was against getting physically that close..but I just couldn't resist his adorable smiles and we were intimate days later...I don't regret it because weeks later he said he wants to spend the rest of our lives together and proposed. =)
I think it was about 2 months. I actually wanted to wait a little longer, but I don't regret it.
It depends on how you look at it... Technically, we'd been talking and getting to know each other for a few months since we met through the internet. However, the first time we saw each other (as in the first time we were ever physically in the same space) we ended up sleeping together. I maintain that it was a couple of months into the relationship but hubby likes to tease that I put out on our first date 
Two years! Granted, we went on one date, I decided I wasn't interested, but he kept pursuing me, so we dated on and off. Once we were finally permanently "on" I think it took about three months.
I jumped him (yes, this is true!) after about 3 weeks (but less than 4) when we started dating. We knew each other for a 2.5 weeks before that. It was one of those friendships that conjured out of nowhere and I knew this would be the most important friendship of my lifetime. (We were not thinking of dating at the time!) And then one thing led to another and then.......... bum chicka wow wow! He was trying to resist because he thought I would feel like a fool afterwards for jumping into it SO SOON, but I do NOT have any regrets! Would do it the same way all over again.
3rd date. Just like @Boston Bee: @nqz100: @pumpkinpatch:
...Can't remember if that was "within the first week" or month, but it was pretty quick. Good, too :)
We waited for about 2 years.....granted we were only 15 when he "asked me out" by the school buses HA! We had plenty to occupy ourselves with ;)
So funny to think about now, 10 years later!!
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