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How long do you consider yourself a newlywed?

posted 2 weeks ago in Newlyweds
  • poll:
    a few weeks : (2 votes)
    3 %
    under 6 months : (2 votes)
    3 %
    under a year : (55 votes)
    70 %
    under 2 years : (16 votes)
    20 %
    under 3 years : (3 votes)
    4 %
    until we have kids : (1 votes)
    1 %
    other (please explain!) : (0 votes)
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    LatteLove   6/19/09  Chicago/San Diego

    The other day my hubby and I saw some acquaintances and they referred to us as newlyweds (we've been married for almost 5 months).  Later the hubby said he considere us newlyweds for only a few weeks after the wedding, and that we weren't newlyweds anymore.
    I guess I planned on considering myself a newlywed for at least a year...I certainly still feel new to this marriage thing!  I'm not sure if I'll consider myself a newlywed after a year, but I might.

    So hive, what do you think? How long does "newlywed-hood" last? a few months, weeks years?  until you have kids or someone else in your group gets married?

     
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    caitlanc   September 12, 2009  Wyoming

    I figure until your 1st anniversary.  I think it's likely we may no longer feel like newlyweds by that point, or may still feel like it long after, but that's my standard.

     
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    rainbow   May 23rd, 2010  Tampa

    I agree, I'll probably stop referring to us as newlyweds once we hit the 1 year mark after we're married!

     
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    You're a newlywed for one year. At his rate, your husband will probably think of you two as an old married couple by next week. ;)

     
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    rosychicklet   September 27, 2008  Boston, MA

    We've been married over a year, and I still feel like a newlywed.

     
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    Charm bracelet   July 24, 2010  Placentia, CA

    I agree with most posts.  I will consider myself a newlywed for about 1 year. 

     
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    Jessie516   May 16, 2009  Ann Arbor, MI

    I was thinking maybe 6 months, but it seems that the consensus is a year.  I couldn't believe it the other day when I realized we're almost at 6 months!

     
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    naangel55   June 20, 2009  Long Beach, CA

    I would consider us newlyweds until we hit our 1 year anniversary.

     
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    Lillindy   09.20.08  Bay Area, CA

    We did up until our first wedding anniversary.  The day after, actually, I was like, "I still want to be a newlywed!"  LOL  We have a cousin getting married tomorrow, so I think we will finally be officially passing the newlywed crown off to them.  Now that I think about it, it could have been cute to actually do something like that to pass from cousin to cousin!

     
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    JoesWifey   May 24th, 2009  NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    I always heard a year was the "newlywed" time frame. If you have a baby within that year though, I think maybe cuts it shorter. The newly mommy and daddy role surpasses that of newly husband and wife heh

     
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    cheerful   September 2009 - eloped  

    I thought you were a newlywed for one year, until your first anniversary. I like being a newlywed, though sometimes I think to call my husband "husband" we should have been married longer :-)

     
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    ErinMarguerite   July 26, 2009  Chevy Chase, MD

    I think a year fits.  I felt really settled very quickly, and I don't really feel like a newlywed most of the time.  For me, that's a good thing though.

     
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    futuredrbraun   May 15, 2010  Indianapolis, IN

    I have always heard that it is a year, but I voted for 2 years because I want to stretch it out a little :)

     
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    FutureMrsDuff   8/28/2009  Bloomington, MN

    I think a year is the norm... it gives you a chance to go through a year of firsts as a married couple:  Christmas, birthdays, wedding season, etc.

     
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    stormy9973   October 3, 2009  Ottawa, KS

    I agree with the other bees... I think a year also!! 

     
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    amanda.lynn   1/07/2011  Austin, Tx

    I think a year! 

     
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    realeastcoaster   July 11, 2009  Canada

    Not sure why, but I think of us as newlyweds until we reach our one-year anniversary. Maybe because it takes a full year to have a first Christmas together, first Halloween together, etc.? 

     
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    bluejay2201   May 30, 2009  Michigan

    It feels odd to hear people call my husband and I newlyweds. We've weathered so many ridiculous things being together 8 years before the wedding. Even though it's only been 5 1/2 months since the wedding, I feel like we've been married forever. I think anything under a year for sure is a newlywed, but it's all what feels right for you. Some people think a year, two years, two months... It's whatever you feel happy with. :)

     
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    Shelbybell   June 28, 2008  Philadelphia

    I voted under 2 years because I really feel like a newlywed still!!  I guess it's a good way to feel, right? Hopefully that won't change when we have a baby!

     

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