How long does it take your DH/SO to climax?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long does it take your DH/SO to climax?
    Less than 1 minute : (2 votes)
    1 %
    2-4 minutes : (25 votes)
    15 %
    5-10 minutes : (61 votes)
    37 %
    Close to 15 minutes : (37 votes)
    23 %
    About 20-30 minutes : (25 votes)
    15 %
    30-45 minutes : (6 votes)
    4 %
    More than 45 minutes : (2 votes)
    1 %
    He rarely climax during intercourse : (4 votes)
    2 %
    Never : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4072 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    It totally varies. He has good control and can last pretty much as long as I need him.

    But yes, the average I have heard is 5-10 minutes of continuous intercourse.

    Post # 4
    Member
    811 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Depends on the time of day, oddly enough.

    I simply refuse in the morning almost always because he lasts over an hour in the morning…

    Post # 5
    Member
    4043 posts
    Honey bee

    @freshflowers:  Haha, DH is the same way. For some reason, right after he wakes up takes forever. To the point where I am honestly like….can we wrap this up (I know that sounds awful)?

    Generally, anytime other than the morning, between 10-15 minutes. He has pretty good control and can go longer if needed. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    3433 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    It depends on how much foreplay there is, but I’d say on average it’s around 3-7 minutes.  Which honestly, is too long for me some times! 

    More than once I’ve reached the point where I’m done and I’ll finish things another way.  I can’t imagine lasting 30+ minutes!  I couldn’t walk normally if we did that!!!

    Post # 6
    Member
    1801 posts
    Buzzing bee

    It varies on position, speed/how hard hes thrusting, and if there was foreplay on his end. It varies from 2-3 of your answers. But either way, I have no complaints

    Post # 7
    Member
    3195 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    My hubby rarely lasts less than 25 minutes. Sometimes he lasts as long as an hour. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    1648 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2000

    he CAN climax in under 10 mins, im sure, but it depends on how long it takes me that particular day 😉

    Post # 10
    Member
    225 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    Probably about 5 minutes if it’s a quickie or I want him to hurry up for whatever reason. But we both enjoy longer sessions and typically end up stretching it to 25-35 min on average.

    Post # 11
    Member
    18 posts
    Newbee

    He’s got GREAT endurance, but typically un-needed, so by the time intercourse actually hits…around 5-10.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1049 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Wow, I had no idea! My fi lasts at least half an hour from the time we really get going. It takes me about that long to get where im going so it suits me fine but damn im a bit jelous, I could get so much more sleep haha

    Post # 13
    Member
    587 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Too long sometimes lol he usually lasts about 15-20 but if it’s been a few days since we’ve had sex he can get there faster. Also different positions that we don’t do as frequently tend to make him climax faster, still I think the quickest ever was probably 8-10 minutes. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    54 posts
    Worker bee

    It depends on how much foreplay there is and what position we are in. Usually around 10-15 mins if we have been touching and feeling prior to the main event or if its a new position. If there isnt much foreplay definitely longer..id say 20-25mins and thats usually around bed when im so exhausted and done at that point..i know thats horrible to say but either way its a great time!!!

    Post # 15
    Member
    27 posts
    Newbee

    <br />This made me sad, we are getting married and I love him but he is only the 2nd man I’ve been with and he rarely, VERY rarely comes. It takes him forever and he thinks (or keeps telling me) this is a good thing. My ex didn’t have a problem with it and I enjoyed that more. I created this handle to comment here annonimously.

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