(Closed) How long does "the do" last with you and your s/o?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

Ours is anywhere from 10-40 min (just depends on the day). 

I am not a fan of oral, so that never happens for us. Bj’s are most often the whole “show” when they happen.  Mostly we makeout and he’s a huge fan of my boobs; and I love that he is! And sometimes he’ll get me started with his hands. 

Post # 4
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3381 posts
Sugar bee

Yeah 30 minutes give or take sounds about right.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Usually an hour, hour and a half…consists of a lot of things, a lot of kissing, rolling around on the bed, oral for both of us getting down to business with a ton of eye contact and we usually run through about four or five of our favorite positions, the bed is usually totally destroyed, we’re both covered in sweat and after, we share a shower and a sandwich…life is good!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@Bellagiobride:  ..three or four times a week…we don’t have kids and I’m pretty high sex drive…so it works out for both of us really well

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Usually no less than an hour, sometimes a couple. We tend to light some candles, put on some music and have a lot of very intimate kissing. Not just lips, but face and neck. A lot of caressing, some conventional like breasts and some less so, such as my back, he does this feather light touch that makes me melt. Oral sex some of the time. Some of the time, he’ll kiss me and push me to keep eye contact while he uses his fingers on me. I don’t think I need to elaborate from there 😉  Let’s just leave it at I’m floaty, incoherent, and it takes me quite a while to come down from it.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It depends what our mood is that day so anywhere from 10-45 minutes. Doesn’t matter how long we’re having sex DH always gets a BJ. I’m not a big fan of him going down on me even though when he does I enjoy it so I usually don’t let him.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It depends on what we want and how much time we have, but on average 30-40 minutes with foreplay is about right. If we don’t have tons of time cause we need to be somewhere soon, we skip most of the foreplay, but we always make sure we both get to finish. 

Typically it includes heavy petting, making out, oral, and toys, in no specific order. We both very much enjoy receiving and giving oral to eachother, it’s very rare i will ever get him fully off from oral though, simply because then we don’t get to have sex. And sometimes it’s a huge amount of time spent being intimate. So it really varies.

 

Post # 12
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Busy bee

It depends on what we have time for! If it’s a night, before bed, probably 30 minutes or so? That includes a lot of kissing, rubbing, touching, usually oral for me, then sex. If we only have time for something quick, midday or whatever, it’s either very quick sex, or our version of 69. Lots of times I’ll just give him a random, full-on BJ, either at night or during the day, and that’s…5 to 10 minutes?

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2014

Really depends; a quickie mightbe 15 minutes, a longer session anything up to 1.5 hours. I’d say 30 minutes on average.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

For some reason it is impossible for me and DH to have a quickie. Our shortest time was 35 minutes. We try, but we just get carried away! We usually take an hour-hour and 1/2, no joke. I always think it’s a quickie, then I see the clock! Seriously I’m always like “That one had to be like 30 minutes.” Nope.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

10-30 minutes depending.  I am not a fan of drawn out sexy time at all.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I have honestly never looked at the clock…I would guess around 30 minutes including foreplay, though…?

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