How long does your SO last in bed?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long does your SO last in bed?
    < 1 minute : (7 votes)
    1 %
    1-5 minutes : (70 votes)
    13 %
    5-10 minutes : (129 votes)
    23 %
    10-15 minutes : (95 votes)
    17 %
    15-20 minutes : (89 votes)
    16 %
    20-25 minutes : (47 votes)
    9 %
    25-30 minutes : (33 votes)
    6 %
    30+ minutes : (82 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
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    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @BakerBee16:  average 45min-1 hr….longest 5.5hrs non stop(5months not seeing each other….yeah….lol Embarassed) quikie is like 20 min….lol….

    Post # 4
    Member
    1802 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Um….it depends! LOL If we haven’t done it in a few days then it can be anywhere from 2-10 minutes. I prefer around 5-10 minutes because it’s just perfect for us. Any longer and I feel like a) he isn’t going to finish at all or b) it’s just too long LOL. I like having sex with him, but sometimes it lasts for 20 minutes and even he doesn’t enjoy that. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    9949 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    He sleeps for hours and hours and hours… oh wait, that’s not what you meant.  =)

    Post # 7
    Member
    1826 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    For a while he thought that longer=better, hands down. I much prefer quickies, so we’ve changed things around to more like <10 minutes, and that’s perfect for me!

    Post # 9
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    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @busybee3791:  yeah sometimes its awesome but when im trying to get some lovin in before like bed or something it can be a pain

    Post # 10
    Member
    2299 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I prefer quickies probably 90% of the time, so I often do things to speed things up a little 😉 I’d say on average 15ish minutes.

    Post # 11
    Member
    12 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Usually around 5 minutes, but he makes up for it with plenty of foreplay! 

    Post # 12
    Member
    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @kansas_nurse:  They are talking about actual penetrative intercourse, not the entire sex act including foreplay. No man , or woman for that matter would survive hours of straight hardcore penetration without chaffing and pain.  2-10 minutes is average from entry to climax. I would even be suspect of 45 min to an hour.

    Post # 13
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    2355 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    The FB fact is almost true. I believe it’s supposed to be 3 minutes. SO is close to average the majority of the time, and it’s almost always enough time for me. That statistic isn’t talking about the entire session of lovemaking; it’s talking about actual intercourse. One hour of non-stop penetration does not appeal to me in the least. Spending a couple of hours in bed with breaks here and there and 2-3 separate incidents of orgasm for both of us? Sure, that has its appeal. I am capable of multiples (meaning immediate, sequential orgasms), but I don’t find them to be some amazing, mindblowing thing. I’m “one and done.”  Excuse my oversharing.

    Post # 14
    Member
    11668 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Never timed it. As long as I get mine I couldn’t care less how long it lasts lol.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @Rrabbetsgirl:  you havent met my FI….not all sex is pounding like rabbits for 10 minutes and done….but im not going to dispute my sex life you can believe what you want not everyone is a statistic…..as statistics only reflect the average of the people they poll….not the world…

    Post # 16
    Member
    11668 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @kansas_nurse:  so you’re saying you and your SO had intercourse with no pulling out for over 5 hours?!

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