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posted 4 months ago in Relationships
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  • poll: How long between your engagement and wedding?
    Less than a year : (87 votes)
    35 %
    1 Year : (64 votes)
    26 %
    2 Years : (73 votes)
    30 %
    3 Years : (9 votes)
    4 %
    4 Years : (3 votes)
    1 %
    5 Years : (1 votes)
    0 %
    Over 5 Years : (3 votes)
    1 %
    Other (pleace explain below) : (6 votes)
    2 %
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    Scottish_lassie       Scotland

    I wondered what the average time was between the engagement and wedding for you fellow bees (just curious really) :-)

    You can write/vote about how long it will be if you're not married yet

     

     
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    kerensa    May 20, 2013   Ohio

    I got engaged in 2006! Still engaged :-)

     
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    Blue-Bird    July 13, 2013   New South Wales, Australia

    We're looking at July 2013 which is 19 months after we go engaged, We need the time to save money or we may have picked an earlier date :)

     
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    CarolinaCola    February 22, 2014   South Carolina

    Our engagement will end up being a little over two years long when we're married.

     
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    Stammie16    March 31, 2012   NJ

    @Scottish_lassie: We'll have been engaged exactly 13 months when we get married in March!

     
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    scadadle15    May 5, 2012   Santa Monica (wedding in Savannah, GA)

    It will be 13 months when we get married.

     
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    Olive12    October 6, 2012   Houston

    A little under 11 months when we get married. I was one of the bees that jumped the gun and started planning my wedding before the engagement. =)

     
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    Mrs Sarah McK    October 10, 2010   Harrisburg, PA

    3 months, give or take a couple of days. 

     
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    littlelucygoose    March 2012  

    It will be 3 months for me. I like having a long engagement because the sooner I get married and the less time I have to be anxious

     
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    Jinxstar      

    Ours is 9  - 10 months, we would have preferred 4 - 7 months, but family scheduling wouldn't allow it.

     
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    SarahSmilesDec28    December 28, 2011   New Brunswick, Canada

    6 months and that was plenty long enough for me :)  We got married in the off season though, so vendor's weren't an issue on relatively short notice.

     
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    theredhead    January 4, 2014   Orlando, Florida

    Our engagement will be just around 2 years! 

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    2 weeks shy of 1 year.

     
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    adnama    July 21, 2012   Langley, Britsh Columbia

    I voted for 1 year, but it will be about 1 year adn 4 months once it's all said and done

     
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    mrscheetos    June 10, 2012  

    1 year and 4 months. We wanted enough time to plan without stress, as well as figure out our school situation. I now wish it was sort of shorter..

     
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    AshleyR83      

    @Scottish_lassie: A little less than a year.  Our wedding date is November 3 of this year and we got engaged November 23 of 2011. :)

     
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    Kubatpark12    August 4, 2012  

    Engaged on christmas, will be married on August 4th...so 7 1/2 months for me...I would have been ready sooner, but family arrangements worked best at that time. The planning is fun, but if I waited any longer, I will get to anxious! Plus, I am so excited to marry bradley, dont wanna wait longer than necessary!

     
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    Jenlon    September 3, 2011   Warsaw, NY

    Ours was from the end of January to the beginning of September... So JUST over 7 months :)

     
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    yellowshoe    December 2011   Laguna Beach, CA

    We were engaged for 18 months...I rounded up and voted 2 years

     
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    deathbydesign    February 18, 2012   Lives in Ontario, married in Quebec

    We will be engaged exactly a year to the day!

     
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    MrsWilson2012    December 2012   DW St. Thomas USVI

    Our engagement is a total of 19 months (currently down to less then 11 months) :)

     
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    bsbee    July 6, 2013  

    21 months i rounded it to 2 years...currently 18 months yaya

     
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    abby_mb    January 2017  

    We got engaged July 2011 and will be married August 2012. =)

     
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    Cariad    February 18, 2012   Greece

    We got engaged on 30th August 2011 and will get married on February 18th 2012.  So that's 5 months and 19 days from the 2 dates.  Now we're on countdown - 37 days and counting!  Yey!

     
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    SweetVanity    September 22, 2012  

    22 months almost to the day. Only 8 more to go!!!

     
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    abbie017    March 16, 2013  

    We got engaged in October 2011, and we'll be married in March 2013...so a year and a half!  It's a perfect amount of time for us since I'm in grad school and working full-time.  Adding wedding planning makes everything even more hectic!

     
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    SpecialSundae    April 21, 2012   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland, UK

    We will have been engaged for just under 16 months on our wedding day, but we were what I called unofficially engaged (planning but without a ring) for 10 months before that.

     
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    Pollywog    July 13, 2013  

    Ours will be about 17 months. My bf wanted a year long engagements, our church requires 6 months of marriage prep, and I wanted a summer wedding. We decided to get engaged in February and then married the following July.

     
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    78h2o    October 8, 2011   MD (wedding was in OR)

    We got engaged June 25, 2011 and married October 8, 2011 - so about 3.5 months! I'm usually really indecisive, so I liked the short engagement because it forced me to make decisions more quickly. I actually think I stressed less because of the timeline. That being said, I was pretty much consumed with planning full time for those few months (besides work).

    We decided to get married quickly because we'd been dating for 4.5 years and my grandfather's health had not been good. It meant a lot to me that I got to have him there!

     
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    MrsGo    September 14, 2013   London, UK

    Just short of 2 years for us, got engaged at the end of October 2011 and getting married in late Sep 2013. One one the reason for the long engagement was to save some money but also we live in the UK, our families are in Canada and Sweden and we are getting married in Canada so it will even more of a logistical nighmare than most weddings. With this in mind we wanted to make sure our families and friends in Europe are given plenty of notice as well.

     
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    purple_orchids    October 6, 2012   Maryland

    Our engagment will be a total of 16 months. We knew we wanted to wait at least a year but didn't want to wait more than two years. We wanted enough time where we could plan what we wanted and have enough time for me to get DIY in that I wanted to do.

     
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    misspeanut    December 10, 2011   Dallas, TX

    About 8.5 months...any longer and I would have gone insane. I got so tired of thinking about it and just wanted to marry him!

     
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    Shel2523      

    SO and I will be engaged by summer of this year. We're hoping/planning for a fall 2013/spring 2014 wedding. It will be over a year, but under two =)

     
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    CherryWaves      

    Engaged for 10 months. DH proposed in Febuary and we got married in December.  Felt it was the right amount of time for us.

     

     
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    Kari 2012    June 2, 2012   Michigan

    Voted for a year but it will have been 18 months

     
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    jocember    August 17, 2013   Syracuse, NY

    I voted 2 years, but it's actually 2 years, 4 months :)

     
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    future_schu    November 10, 2012   New Jersey

    Ours will be 22 months. Mainly because we want a certain time of year, and a certain weekend- and we want to be able to plan everything we want and not have to settle on a vendor or venue :) Things book fast where I live.

     
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    GroovyHippieChick    October 20, 2012   My Happy Place

    16 mos.  Rounded up to 2 yrs

     
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    ejay15    August 10, 2013  

    We'll be just under 20 months, so I rounded up to 2 years. We're saving all our pennies plus planning from across the country, so the extra time is nice!

     
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    bluebonnet    July 31, 2010   Houston, TX

    Ours was just a week shy of 8 months... we wanted to get the show on the road! Haha!

     

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