Post # 1
Just curious =]
Feel free to explain in the comments whether that’s waiting/engaged/married time!
I’ve been here for about a year and a half and waiting. It’s crazy how many stages of waiting I’ve gone through from wedding-fever to ring-porn crazy to disinterested to c’est la vie lol
Post # 3
I’ve been hear a year and a half through part of my engagement, my wedding planning, marriage and now pregnancy.
Post # 4
@OldMrsMcDonald: Wow, I think it is has been about 1 year and 4 months. I joined about a month before I got engaged.
Post # 5
@Kat_Kit2000: I came here due to waiting frustrations.
I got my a$$ handed to me the first few posts I wrote as bees questioned if I wanted to have a wedding or wanted to marry my SO…and if he wanted to marry me.
I took a few breaks, got therapy, read relationship/self help books, talked to people…changed my outlook, came back to the Hive…and it’s honestly been a wonderful support group
>sometimes more than my therapist can provide because of all of the different perspectives on here IMO
I joined the Hive January of 2013 a confused bee…and I lurked for about 6 months before that.
I plan to be here for a while….I’m a waiting bee, but I can’t wait to be an engaged/wedding bee, then married bee, then TTC bee….this place is wonderful. A place where I can really be honest even if I’m wrong–I can find my way without (hopefully) runing my relationships with people IRL.
Sorry so long!! I’m feeling very chatty/typie tonight or something lol It’s like this in all my posts!!
Post # 6
Hmmm… I think I joined shortly after my engagement, so probably somewhere around 1.5 years?
Post # 7
February this year, to vent my waiting frustrations! I don’t come one so much now I have a bit of sparkly 😛 I am a super-chilled engaged bee, wedding planning is not fazing me at all and the big things are already sorted 🙂
Post # 8
I was a lurker and joined right after he proposed. We have been married now for over 2 years. I have been a member for 4 years.
Post # 9
I’d say about a year & a half.
Post # 10
2 years in December, won’t be engaged for a while… too many ducks to get in a row.
Post # 11
Two years, I joined a couple of months before we got engaged, when we were seriously talking about engagement. So in January I will have been engaged for two years.
Post # 12
Joined in April 2012 after googling something like “tired of waiting for the ring” lol..it’s been a great support group! I think I’ll stay awhile 🙂
Post # 13
I joined in 2009 when I got engaged. Married in 2010. Although a lot of Bees come and go, I really like the ladies here. I like to think that maybe I might be able to offer them some advice and perspective now that I have gone through the wedding process and am a mom.
Post # 14
I have been here since June 2011, when I first got engaged… so about 2.5 years. I have my moments where I back off and don’t post as much and times when I post a lot– overall I enjoy this community!