how long is your sex?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Somewhere between 15 – 45 minutes. Usually 20-30.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

It depends –  Sometimes 5 minutes and sometimes as long as 15-20 – i think our average is somewhere in the middle. there been times where it’s gone longer but really I’m done after 15-20.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

This actually makes me have to think! Hmm… I would say 5-20 minutes of foreplay and 10-25 minutes of intercourse on average? I think it really varies depending on the situation, mood, etc.

I did read somewhere that between 7-13 minutes of intercourse is ideal, anymore or less in general and someone isn’t having as good a time as they could be anymore. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

On average, 30 min to an hour…. Of course, if the situation calls for a quickie, it can happen in under 10 minutes (maybe even 5 sometimes lol) 

ETA: That includes foreplay time of course! Which is usually 15+ dependinh on what it is!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Our average, not a quickie in the shower etc., including foreplay is usually about an hour

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

usually about 30 min to an hour, sometimes longer.   i don’t think we’ve ever really had a quickie.  never less than 20-30 minutes.

Post # 9
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Newbee

Easily an hour. With at least 30 mins of foreplay/kissing and 10-15 of intercourse and then how ever long it takes for him to get me off and visa versa. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

I’d say foreplay is usually long, like 20 minutes at least?

As far as sex, I think too long usually! My guy thinks “longer is better” so tries to make it last as long as possible… but I usually finish in the first five or ten minutes… and then lose interest… haha I feel awful.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

including foreplay….gosh…it depends on what we do as foreplay….somewhere between 20-an hour…. Usually after 20-30 mins of sex I am done and I do whatever I can to make him go! lol 

Here is something crazy….When i was younger and still a newby at sex I had the longest sex of my life…. 3 1/2 hours! lol  I didnt realize it.  We were supposed to go to a theme park the next day and afterwards we were talking about it and i was telling him we should probably get up around 8 to get there….he quickly told me it was like 4am lol  oops!

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@jesssamesssa:  +1. Depends what we are doing. Anywhere between 30 minutes and multiple hours.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Anywhere between 20 to 45 minutes depending on the mood.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

We used to have these crazy marathon sessions…it was ridiculous. Now I cannot do longer than 30 minutes.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

15-45 minutes, depending.  The foreplay part is the longest part of it. 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@laughs:  Hahaha, don’t feel awful!  I don’t like it when intercourse lasts longer than 10 minutes either! 

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