- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2010
Ok my husband and I got married last November, at the time it was important that we got married, but wanted to put the money towards paying off debt and things we needed for the house. We only had our daughter and parents who were local present. My mom who lives on the west coast was not even there. Then we just did a nice dinner following. We had planned to do a small simple ceremony no bridal party or anything just him and I, and our daughter with a reception later.
All of our friends and family are looking forward to being present, since neither one of us has been married before we do want to do a wedding. I our case it would really be renewing our vows with a party following. I’m not going to register for gifts and all that, obviously I wouldn’t do a shower, and bachelorette party since we’re already married. It seems as though some people on other sites have seen have been very nasty about others wanting to do the same kind of thing. Basically they have the too bad so sad you missed the chance attitude.
We don’t have the type of friends that would turn their nose up at us, and it wouldn’t be a huge event so I don’t see anything wrong with it. I guess my question is should I do it next year like we planned or should I wait for something like our 5 year anniversary?
**We planned on doing it next June, since I want an outdoor wedding and Nov. isnt really a great time of year for that sort of thing! Thanks guys, after reading so many other sites where people were so negative about it, I lost all excitement and stopped the planning process. Now I am getting back into it!