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How long were you dating before you got engaged?

posted 2 years ago in Proposals
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  • poll: How long did you date before getting engaged?
    Less than 6 months : (5 votes)
    3 %
    6 months to a year : (23 votes)
    16 %
    1-2 years : (24 votes)
    16 %
    2-3 years : (26 votes)
    18 %
    3-5 years : (42 votes)
    29 %
    5-10 years : (26 votes)
    18 %
    10+ years : (1 votes)
    1 %
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    FI and I knew each other for 12 years (met in middle school) and dated off and on for 6 years before getting engaged. Its a little deceiving though, because although we had been together for a long time, most of it was long distance (as in, a plane flight - not a drive away) and we only lived in the same place for 5 months before he popped the question.

    How long did you date before getting engaged?

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    11 months.

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    we dated for a little over a year before getting engaged, but had known each other for two years/had been friends first!

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    A little over 5 years! Still waiting for my ring, though, since we're broke college students. :( 

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    My fiance and I were together for just shy of 4 years before we got engaged. By the time we get married, we'll have been together for 6 years and 10 days!

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    Almost 6 years.

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    A little over 3 years for us and we got married just shy of being together 4 years.

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    10 years! we are high school sweethearts so that timeframe was fine with me..we wanted to get through college/grad school and get our careers in order :) 

     
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    Tonya2010    September 11, 2010  

    Had know eachother for 5 years and dating for 4 years.

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    Dated over 5 years. He gave me a ring the day I graduated from law school, so the time period doesn't phase me in the least.

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    We were dating for 1 month shy of 4 years when we got engaged.

     
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    Vanilla    January 16, 2010   Santa Fe, NM

    We had been together almost 11 months when he popped the question, and another 6 months when we got married!  From the time we first started dating to the time we got married was about a year and a half.

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    A little over 2 months...but we have had a very long and eventful engagement so it's more than balanced out.

     
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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    We had been together almost 2 years when we got married. We got engaged after 15 months.

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    2.5 years, most of it long distance!

     
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    prettyflowers    September 2010  

    almost 4 years...

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    We got engaged after dating for about a year and a half.  We got married 6 days before our 2 year anniversary.

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    He propsed the day before our 2 year Anniversary!

     
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    artsprout.love    May 15, 2010   Virginia

    We got engaged a year and 5 months after dating.... we get married on our 2 year anniversary! :)

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    Thursday will be seven months for us. Six of those have been long distance. He's proposing sometime in the next three weeks (my money is on Valentines, haha), and then we've got another 4 months of distance to deal with. 

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    Thursday will be seven months for us. Six of those have been long distance. He's proposing sometime in the next three weeks (my money is on Valentines, haha), and then we've got another 4 months of distance to deal with. 

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    We dated for about 8 months before we got engaged. We were already living together so we knew we wanted to get married!

     
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    Sunshine23    July 17, 2010   Canada

    Dated 3 years when we got engaged. Lived together for 1.5 years of that. But we've known each other for 16.5 years.

     
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    nicole18ashley    June 5, 2011   New Jersey

    we were dating for 2 and a half years before he proposed, 6 months of which we we're living together, and are having our wedding in june of 2011

     
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    SuperBrook    5/7/2011   Kansas

    I selected 2-3 years because he proposed on the day after our 2 year anniversary.  :)

     
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    Mimi29    July 31, 2010   Wedding in Miami, FL

    Right before our 5th year anniversay =) seems to be the right time haha!

     
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    thefuturemrsgibbs    June 12, 2010   Northern California

    8 months! We don't live with each other yet. We did but then I moved out to live with my parents almost immediately after we got engaged. Funny ha.

    @farmersdaughter

    Congrats!

     
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    Miss Bella    October 15, 2011   Blue Bell, PA

    We were together for almost exactly five years when we got engaged!  We will be together seven years when we get married next October.  I think it's the perfect amount of time!  Not too short, not too long!

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    7.5 years!  The first 4 were long distance...

    We had known each other for 13 years though!

     
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    Navy_Baby    July 3, 2010   Northern Virginia

    We were together for 3.5 years when we got engaged, and we'll have been together for a little over 5 years when when we get married :)

     
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    LittlestBirds    July 24, 2010   Seattle, WA

    Two years and nine months when he proposed.

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Exactly 3.5 years. 

     
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    sapphirebride    December 31, 2010   Seattle, WA

    2 years and 4 months before engagement. However, we'd known each other for 11.5 years! We had dated in high school, went separate ways for college, and got back together after that. He told me after two months that he wanted to marry me, but it took a while to get the ring. We moved in together after about 1 year and 10 months.

     
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    LuvNyYanks    July 1, 2011  

    8 years!!

     
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    MrsLintner2be    August 7, 2010   Hayward, Wisconsin

    3 Months haha. We move pretty fast :P We'd been best friends before we started dating, so there was no question about our decision to get married. 

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    We were together about 2.5 years before we got engaged.

     
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    tarahartman    June 25, 2011   Hamburg, PA

    Well, we dated for 6 months then bought a house. Kind of unconvential, I know but it worked for us! We love our house! Then we got engaged at 11.5 months.

    hey, when you know, you know! ;-)

     
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    TobeMrsG    August 15, 2010   New York

    I selected 3-5 years because although I knew the ring was coming since just before the 3 year mark (there was an elaborate scheme to get mom out of the way for him to ask my dad while they were visiting) it was another month before he was on his knee with the ring. I had insisted it was not official until these two things were achieved, but for a month he kept trying to touch me with his knee so he could say we were engaged.

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    so far we've been dating for almost two years, and i'm pretty sure an engagement will come this year, because we want to get married dec 2011 and i told him i need at LEAST a year to plan and not be insane.

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    We dated for a little over 3.5 years before he proposed. 

     

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