Post # 1
I have never been on birth control before and my fi and I haven’t had sex yet. My honeymoon is in 2 weeks and we’re going to be using condoms. We are going for 7 nights to the caribbean. I feel really unprepared and have no one I can ask and talk to about it other than my FH. Any advice on what I should expect, bring and quantity wise? Thanks! I’m also going to be in my most fertile window on the wedding night and 5 nights into the honeymoon. lol. We are not planning on bringing back an extra souvenier!
Post # 2
humm…thats a tough one. i would say 3 per day just to be good. although you will be on a cruise doing stuff not just in a hotel room… humm..i dont know i have never had to use condoms before! just buy a mega box might as well be prepared!
Post # 3
misshappygolucky: Is this for real? THIS is your first post?? I don’t know, 1000?? I’m sure they sell more all around the world if you run out.
Post # 4
It doesn’t hurt to be overly prepared. I think we just brought a box of 24. What we didn’t use we brought home. Make sure you have some in your carry on in case your luggage gets lost!
We didn’t have THAT much sex on our honeymoon but we’d been living together for 2 years already. If it’s your first time you’ll probably be doing it a lot more!
Post # 5
- Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California
I would just invest in a bunch! What you don’t use on the cruise, you can bring home to use ;]
Post # 6
Condoms are not comfortable so you may want to rethink your long term birth control plan. If it’s your first times I would bring 5 per day. Then there is no worry if one breaks or goes flying across the room when you’re trying to put them on the first few times. The last thing you want is to have to stress about rationing condoms on your honeymoon.
Post # 7
misshappygolucky: that is nice you chose to wait. I would say bring a couple of boxes… Being your first time your new hubby may be keen to go like rabbits ! I am sure you can buy more where you are going xx
Post # 8
Well, the good thing is that condoms are small, take up very little space and don’t expire (at least not for a long time). So just overpack and don’t worry about it. I’d take 30 or so. I can’t imagine you’d go through that many, but you just bring the extras home. Also, have you talked to your fiance about this? He may already be planning to bring them.
Post # 9
misshappygolucky: I’m not sure, I guess the biggest box you could find, just to be safe? Since it’s your fertile window, you should use spermicide or another backup method, too. Double up!
Unless you’ve got something against it, it would probably be best if you could use something besides condoms for the long term – the pill, IUD, NuvaRing, etc.
Post # 10
The first time usually hurts depending on how long you go and some other factors. it might also hurt the next day etc. So bring lots of condoms but don’t feel pressure to use them all especially in the first couple of days. If after the first night you are in pain, take a night off… Trust me, the second time will start to feel good but only if you are all healed up! Make sure you listen to your body so by the end of the honeymoon, you can have lots and lots of wonderful sex instead of just the painful stuff the whole time. And bring lube. Do not rely on lubricated condoms to be enough for your first time! Have fun lol
Post # 11
RedHeadKel: It’s not my first weddingbee, I had to create another username just in case someone saw my other one, I didn’t want to be embarassed or teased about it. lol
Post # 12
Just buy a big box. *shrugs*
And if it’s your first time, bring lube, too.
ALSO Make sure you aren’t allergic to anything (like latex).
Good luck and have fun! 🙂
Post # 13
misshappygolucky: Make sure to bring lots and lots of lube (dont be surprised if it takes you a few days before you can do the deed). And bring a box of non-latex condoms. You dont want to discover that you are allergic to latex and not have any back up!
Post # 14
We’ve both had sex before in previous relationships, just not with each other, we’ve waited for almost 2 years!! Lol. We’ve played around a bit but never any penetration. My fiance is also *p0rn star status* so I imagine it’ll be like my first time all over again LOl.
Post # 15
misshappygolucky: well, i couldn’t tell you because I ended up getting poison ivy half way through my honeymoon!!!!!!!
Since this is your first time, I would just bring a mega box.