How many hors d'oeuvres? (Pieces and variety)

posted 3 years ago in Food
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

For a 1.5 hour cocktail “hour” I’d bump that up to 5-7 pieces pp.  Even with dinner following, people will be hungry and the best food is always at cocktail hour.

4 choices is plenty.  The more variety you offer the more people will eat, because people will want to try everything.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I would say a minimum of 4 but maybe more for that many people. I would have at least 1 vegetarian options with a variety of meats, like 1 chicken, 1 beef, 1 vegetarian, and 1 shrimp… or somthing like that. And veggie/fruits trays too 🙂

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

We are doing 4 choices (4 pieces per person) and our cocktail hour is 1 hour. It also depends on the choices too. We thought maybe going more but 2 of the options are pretty big and filling. 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

My venue suggested something like, 7 pieces per person for an hour long cocktail hour. I personally thought that was ridiculous and I think we ordered three items, and enough for each person to have one of each item. Knowing that some would eat multiple and some would eat none. They were all heavy apps (meatballs, shrimp skewers with two shrimp and i forget the third). If they ran out and there wasn’t enough, I never heard about it.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I may be the odd one out, but I don’t really care about hors d’oeuvres. I remember going to my first wedding when I was 20 and thinking “they give you food before dinner?”

We’re having 2 pp but only 30 minute cocktail hour (doing most photos before hand)

1.5 hrs is a bit long….I’d say 4-5 is good

 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@memo:  You should see some cocktail hour menus in the NYC area. They are absolutely insane, and it would be very easy to over stuff yourself during cocktail hour. They are a meal within themselves. (This is why we are doing a cocktail style reception.)

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@Groominator:  From what I hear, everything in the NYC area is insane! I’ve seen ring posts from some girls there! Cocktail style reception sounds great. My friends did that last year, and it was awesome 🙂

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@futuremrste:  We are having around 110 guests but only 95 or so at the cocktail hour, 5-6pm, since we have a larger WP.  We are serving 300 chicken wings, 150 quiche, and 150 bruchetta.  We will have entertainment for the guests so they wont just be standing their.  We will have two sets of corn hole boards and a photobooth.  Plus the open bar!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

We’re planning to have 3 pieces per person.  We havent’ finalized the menu yet but I’m thinking we’ll go for bruschetta, chicken satay and mini crab cakes.  Our cocktail “hour” is only going to be less than an hour, more like 30-45 min.  

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