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    Deci    August 14, 2010   Seattle

    I have 7 bridesmaids in my party.  Is that too many?  I feel that I am the last of my group that will be getting married and I want all of the people close to me to share in the excitement.  My FI thinks I am crazy and says he is not going to have that many groomsmen.  I told him he does not have to but I like all my girls.  Believe me, I could add two more but am holding back. What do you think?

     
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    beachbride0810    August 21, 2010  

    I only have 4, but I don't see any problem with having more!  I think the most important thing is to include all the girls that are important to you and that you want to share your day with ... regardless of the number.  Plus, a larger bridal party will be helpful for your girls when it comes to planning (and perhaps even paying for) your shower!  Good luck!  :)

     
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    Ms. Caniche    September 18, 2010   Orange County, CA

    I have 7 too.  I don't think that it is to many.

     
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    bethy362    July 10, 2010   New York, NY

    I have 7 too!

     
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    g8rgirl1020    March 5, 2011   Orlando, FL

    I don't see any problem with it. I'm having 8, but 5 of them are family and I couldn't pick and choose there. Everyone I am having is important to me and I couldn't imagine our day without them there with me.

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    yeah i think 7 is just fine!! no worries :D  i don't have that many girlfriends so i'm sticking with 3.

     
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    verosara    March 27, 2010   LA, California

    I have 6 and I don't think 7 are too many at all.

     
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    hotwings    August 21, 2010   Boston, MA

    I have 8. These days I don't think it matters too much. You can make it work big or small.

     
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    krissyb    9/5/2010  

    I have 6 and its going great! My sister-in-law had 9 of us and it was a big success too.  All the girls in my wedding party get along really well and it hasn't been too hard to handle that many at all! When I was in my sister-in-laws party, I saved so much money splitting the shower/bachelorette by 9 of us, it was great!  On the flip side, as the bride, you will be responsible for paying for bridesmaid bouquets and presents, so beware before adding too many more as it can be an expense on your end too.

     
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    maisymay    December 19, 2009   morgan hill, ca

    I once saw a wedding with 12, so I think you're okay with 7!

     
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    bloodgo1    May 14, 2010   Royal Oak

    i have 8 total! i just was too close with them and couldn't leave anyone out. they also appreciated being able to spread the cost of the shower out a little more i think.

     
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    jgator    October 5, 2010  

    I have seven bridesmaids too and my FI thought i was crazy as well. but im with you all those women have beenwith me through thick and thin and i couldnt imagine my day without them up there beside me. Ideally i wish i could have asked about 10 but FL said that was out of the question lol so we settled on 7. The most important thing for me on my wedding day was to be surrounded with everyone i love and the consequence was that id have seven bridesmaids so personally i see nothing wrong with it :)

     
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    Deci    August 14, 2010   Seattle

    Thanks for your comments! You guys Rock!! I knew I wasn't crazy :) YAY!  Now I don't feel bad having 7.  Might add one more but  we will see.

     
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    ILikePink    June 9, 2012   Minneapolis, MN

    I worked at David's Bridal for 4 hellish weeks, and we'd get girls with 10 bridemaids. I personally could never handle that. I think it depends a lot on what your crowd of friends is like. 

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    I have 8 and that was my limit. I have 2 friends and all the rest are family. I've been to a wedding where there were more.

     
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    sd2009    May 16, 2009  

    I don't think 7 is crazy in general, but it kind of depends on how many guests you have. For example, if you were having a small wedding with only 25 guests, 7 would be a bit much, but if you're having say, 100 guests, that would be more proportionate.

     
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    Deci    August 14, 2010   Seattle

    We will have about 125 guest so the scale is right.  Thanks all...I need all the amo I can get at this point. Deci

     
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    volleybride    Sept 18th, 2010   Philadelphia, PA

    I think 7 is fine. I went to two weddings last year where there were 12 bridesmaids!!!  Their party was too big...I seriously felt like the only girl not in the wedding party.

     

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