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posted 3 weeks ago in Relationships
  • poll: How many times a week are you getting busy??
    0 (we're waiting) (we're tired) (we're bored) : (18 votes)
    13 %
    1-2 : (50 votes)
    36 %
    3-4 : (53 votes)
    38 %
    5-7 : (15 votes)
    11 %
    7+ : (4 votes)
    3 %
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    waitingbee     California

    We used to have sex 12 times a week when we first started dating. Now 5 years later not so much. How many times a week are you getting busy??

     
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    MsMamaBear     Atlanta

    Only 3 to 4 but we don't live together.lol If we did, it'd be more!Wink

     
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    bellenga   Next Summer..2010! Can't wait!  North of Atlanta, Georgia

    We don't live together so maybe 3-4 on weekends..when the kiddos aren't around!  It's kinda hard to swing that with an inquisitive 11 yo son.

     
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    daydreamwanderer   January 2011?  live in NE China; wedding in West Michigan

    LDR = no physical contact. booo hooo hooo....

    But, aside from that, we are going to try to wait when we do get to spend time together.

     
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    gingerkid4god   June 12, 2010  West Virginia

    we only do once or twice because I only get to see him on the weekends.

     
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    Akennedy01     KY

    It was about 6 a week, sometimes more up until two weeks ago. I got sick and then midterm week hit and he's been super busy at work. So the past two weeks it's been like 3 or 4. :(

     
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    EAQ219   May 22, 2010  Cleveland, OH

    When we first starting having sex (about 2 months into our relationship) we were having it A LOT. Like, a lot a lot. That definitely dwindled over time and also due to the fact that we were long distance for over 2 years. Now we live together and probably have sex 3-4 times per week. Sometimes if I'm not feeling it I'll um...how do I say this nicely? I make HIM happy and then go to sleep. He doesn't seem to mind and I get my beauty rest! I think he'd like to do it more, but my drive is just not the same as his.

     
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    HoneyBear     Texas

    @EAQ- I totally do that too! lol its win/win really

     
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    CorgiTales   Winter 2010/2011?  Columbus, Ohio

    @eaq/honeybear- me too haha. I think that my guy would want to have sex at least twice a day, every day, if i was willing. (I'm not) heh

     
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    KT_Williams   July 3, 2010  Washington

    Wow, make me feel bad. I dont know whats wrong with me then. I mean, FI and I been together going on 3 years. Lived together for over 1.5 Like 1-2 times a week? Is that bad? LOL everyone elses #'s seem uh....higher. I feel like I am depriving my FI now! LOL. Well he gets back from deployement this weekend so it will be a little higher then that! Ha-ha!

     
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    crebre80     Baton Rouge, LA

    we  have spurts... usually it's like 3-5 or 5-7 depending on the week... sigh...

     
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    JoesWifey   May 24th, 2009  NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    we're at 1-2 times a week if we're lucky... two nights a week are automatically out because his sister is home (even though she's not in the same room, so I don't really get it), other times one person is just too tired or something. i wish it was more often, but, what can you do.

     
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    Shaema   May 22, 2010  North Attleboro, MA

    We make a strong attempt at being 'together' at least once a day but try for twice if we can sneak away from my little one.  We've been together for two years so it was more often at the start but there are only 24 hours in a day ;-)

     
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    northernazbride   August 1, 2009  Arizona

    I feel so bad for my husband because since becoming pregnant a few months ago my libido has completely disappeared... so I'd say maybe once a week. Luckily he's pretty understanding. I hope to get my mojo back one of these days.

     
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    slicey19     

    When we first moved in together he was a student and I was unemployed then working part time and we were easily at once a day. Now, after living together for 3 years and both working full time, we're down to 1-2 times per week. It's not that we don't want to more but we get home around 6:30, cook/eat, watch 1-2 shows on TV and then go to bed, 3 out of the 5 days per week one of us does not get home until 8:30 due to sports or my language class so we just don't have time. Some one please tell me how you fit in even 3-4 times per week?

     
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    Jelly_Bean25   11-21-2009  Orlando, FL

    We are aware that this number could go down, and with the wedding planning, it has already.  But we do try for the goal of everyday.  Hahahahaha.

     
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    lolaj     Queens, NY

    OMG! You bees are HILARIOUS!!

    In the beginning we were gettin' busy like 3 times a day but thats becasue we only saw eachother on the weekends.

    Now that we live together it's like 3-4 times a week! I know, so sad....

    But I guess life gets in the way. If I am not into it I will also make him happy.

    My new years resolution is to get busy more often! LOL

     
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    lilyfaith   6/24/2012  Lakeview, Chicago

    We never really got that joyful "honeymoon" period because we were 17 and living in our parents' houses! We have sex maybe 3-4x a week on average, mostly because we're both so busy and exhausted that half the time we end up giving each other massages and falling asleep, lol. 

     
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    pmerr   August 14, 2010  Rochester, NY

    0---we're waiting for another 284 days ;)

     
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    eeniebeans   10/9/10  Baltimore

    3-4 times a week.  Every other day or so?

     
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    Stassney   November 21, 2010  Austin, Tx

    I voted 5-7, but seeing as how it's only Tuesday and we've already 'gotten busy' 5 times this week, I want to re-vote.. lol

    /blush

     
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    elizabeth.blankenhorn   May 22, 2010  

    I'd say about 1/ week. In college it was up around 3x/night, but these days that's just not possible - we both work looooong weeks and have one kiddo in the house so... 

     
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    mountain.bride   12 December 2009  

    We were like 9-10 times a week at first, for a couple of years, but down to 3-4 now (nearly 7 years later). 5 or 6 on a good week, 2 on a bad :) We both really miss it if it's been more than a day or so, and it just requires making the effort. Going to bed just a bit earlier, sending some cute emails or messages during the day to get the mood going. For years we had Sunday afternoon blocked out purely for naked fun. We don't get there every Sunday anymore but we do try to occasionally take a couple of hours on the weekend to indulge. Makes a nice change from the usual night time rituals.

     
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    FutureMrs.Harless     Northeast TN

    It use to be alot more until we started living together i voted 3-4... honestly every kiss with my man sends that fuzzy feeling through my body and  it would be much more but my man is a fireman and when he goes to work 3 days a week he is gone for 24 hrs so lol but honestly we have alot more intimate moments than that... we grope carress fondle & still make out several times a day day we just dont always have time or the convience of getting it on

     
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    futuredrbraun   May 15, 2010  Indianapolis, IN

    0 - we are waiting and it is tough, but really worth it :) Less than 200 days......

     
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    RecessionistaBride   July 10, 2010  

    When I was with him for a month straight... it was every day a few times a day. ONLY because we're LD & we had to get a years quota into that month lol.

    When we move in together, I think we're looking at a more realistic 3-4 times a week. :)

     
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    Jaxx317     Broolyn, NY

    on average it's 3...i would sometimes like it to be more, but we're often so tired at the end of the day that it's hard to make time. we can also be on different libido levels - sometimes i want it more than him and vice versa.

     
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    Sulli301   June 26th 2010  Michigan

    We used to be everyday when we were first together but now it is about 3-5 a modest, realistic amount :) I wish it was  more!! ;)

     
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    Beav1279   12/27/09  Vegas wedding for a Vegas native - who now lives in Austin, TX

    only 1-2 for me and my FI, but if we lived together it would be 3-4... I can't wait till Dec :)

     
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    SuperKate     Missouri

    We're at about 3 times per week. We both work long hours so a lot of the time we just want to relax after work. 

    Interestingly enough I think our number dropped when we moved in together. I think you make more of an effort when you don't live together but when you do, you figure we could always do it tomorrow. 

     

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