How many times/week do you have sex?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How many times do you have sex per week
    1 : (131 votes)
    22 %
    2-3 : (223 votes)
    38 %
    4-5 : (76 votes)
    13 %
    5+ : (42 votes)
    7 %
    rarely ie. < 1 time per week : (119 votes)
    20 %
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    695 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    My husband and are on 2 schedules. I prefer night time, but once he hits the pillow he’s OUT!

    And he prefers Mornings, but I feel so yucky in the morning and I have dragon breath, and I have to pee, and I just need a few more minutes of sleep!

    So the weekends is really our Happy Medium. 

    Although if we were to have sex, lets say on a Tuesday. We joke around that we are Wild And Crazy kids, having sex on a school night.

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    9740 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    It used to be a lot more often, but we’ve calmed down a bit.  My BC has tamed me.  I was a million times more horny than he was at one point.  He seriously couldn’t keep up with me.  Now that we’re both working, we’re both tired a lot.  It sucks, but we still enjoy our sex life very much so.

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    2537 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We’re lucky if we get to once a week. We have a son, and we currently co sleep so it makes for some creative thinking, but we are to get it done at least twice a month. It certainly isnt ideal, but the alternative would be to not live all together at the moment, and that would definitely suck even more!

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    2319 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    We’ve been together for almost 8 years, he lives 2hours away and can only visit in the weekends so it’s 2.. luckly 3 times a week, 0 if we’re really unlucky.

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    2923 posts
    Sugar bee

    If it weren’t for our opposite work schedules I’d push for 4. But right now we really only around enough for twice. Sigh…

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    816 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We live with my mother. Our bed is above hers. Prior to living with her we had a very healthy sex life….may unhealthy (2-3x a day…we were crazy at first), but NOW we have sex practically never. Long story short: she found condom wrappers in the trash and spazzed out, so now we just don’t do it. Keep in mind we’ve been together for 3 years and hes 25 and I’m 23. Annoying!

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    9740 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @claireos: That’s our problem as well – opposite schedules.

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    161 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Normally 2-3x a week. Depends on whats going on. We’ve been together for almost 27yrs. We have to be careful. We have custody of our 3yr old granddaughter and she’s very sneaky… She hasn’t walked in on us yet, but she knows we aren’t sleeping during “gma/gpa nap time” ;) In fact she lectured us about it last week.

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    407 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I voted 4-5 but it would be more if we were living together :P   We do it morning/day/night so we have no set times really.  We have been together for just over 4 years.. For the first 2 years he wanted MORE sex all of the time and I couldn’t be bothered lol.  The second 2 years I always want more and he can’t be bothered lol.. So we def haven’t found our happy medium because our timetables keep changing.  Hopefully when we are living together we will sort out our sex roster lol 

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    662 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    It would be more if we lived together!

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    10263 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I can’t really vote. We don’t do it 2 times a week, once a week or three times a week every week. Its always different. Sometimes its twice a week sometimes it can be 4 times a week! It just depends. :-) It always evens out!

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    95 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    We do it about 2-3 times a week. I’d prefer to do it more :D but my husband has to “be in the mood” or otherwise it’s just not fun. He’ll sometimes get in the mood for me but I know he’s just not there and I usually don’t end up enjoying myself much. He’s kind of sleep deprived and stressed so that really affects his libido. But it could be worse so I can’t complain!

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    4056 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    We probably get busy about 2x a week, except the week I ovulate, and then it’s more like 4-6x. 

    ETA: We’re both happy with the frequency. If one of wants it more often, the other rarely refuses the advances ;)

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