Post # 1
Religion aside, do people typically say vows and ring vows. The person marrying me sent me ring vows and sample vows and other then the mention of the ring, some of them seem to be saying the same thing (I take you for the rest of my life). I’m confused?
Post # 3
The weddings I have been to always say their vows, and then when it comes to the ring they just say “with this ring I thee wed.”
I think its all personal preference.
Post # 4
You can do whatever you want. You can plan it out, go with a traditional way of things, go with what your officiant usually does. We planned it out so that we just said our vows, then took the rings… and I sort of improvised and said something more, “with this ring, we are forever.” Something like that.