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How many Wedding Dresses did you buy before finding "the one"?

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  • poll: Did you buy more than one dress before you found "the one"?
    No, I just bought one! Loved it soon as I saw it! : (58 votes)
    71 %
    I bought 2, change of wedding style so ended up changing styles, or other reason : (11 votes)
    13 %
    Bought between 1-4 Dresses, couldn't decide!! : (11 votes)
    13 %
    Bought more than 3, I love dress shopping! : (2 votes)
    2 %
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    julybride2be2011    July 2, 2011  

    Just wondering how many brides out there have bought more than one dress! Did you ever find the dream dress after buying more than one dress? Can't decide on a dress, post them here as well! 

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm the worst offender. Not counting a dress I bought and returned the next day at the very beginning of wedding planning, I currently have three dresses. It's four days before my wedding and I still haven't made up my mind 100% about which one to wear. My dream dress would probably be a combination of the three. Have the embroidery of the first, silhouette of the second, and fit me as well the third one does.

    Dress1 - Lazaro:

    Dress2 - Vera Wang:

    Dress3 - Romona Keveza:

     

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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @meliss:  What happened to the Marisa??  I must have missed the Romona Keveza thread, haha.  Seriously, you look SO GOOD in all three dresses!  I REALLY like the RK one!  Are you at Mary Linn's in that pic??  Laughing

     
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    camrie    September 5, 2010   Louisville

    meliss: I'm right there with you! I have 3 as well. I ordered two before I found the one I love (on was an ivory bridesmaid dress though). However I ordered "The One" after the other two and still got it before either came in.

    I like to have options! Plus I think I'll just shorten the bridemaid dress and make it my reception or rehersal dress.

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Hey @ddubzz, I never ended up buying the Marisa. I bought the Vera and the RK instead. The RK was my dirty little secret, I didn't post that till couple days ago :) When I was hating my Lazaro I went back to a few of the salons and I was in such panic I wasn't in the right frame of mind...Yes, that's Marylinn's in the photo. The designer was there for a trunk show (guy in the photo) and he talked me into buying that dress. He convinced me that they could do a super rush order and get a brand new dress in time. When I came home I cried thinking I made a dumb purchase again because I wanted a ballgown and the dress is so slim and has no train. So I bought the Vera as well, and put the RK up for sale. But the dress did arrive in time, and for a reception dress it looks really pretty. They botched the alterations (again!) though so it's cutting circulation to my chest. None of the seamstresses seem to get that my boobs are a different size than my waist. I pick it tomorrow, we'll see what happens...

     
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    junipertree    October 23, 2010   Issaquah, WA

    I've purchased 3..  a White One gown I tried on in a bridal salon.. everyone loved it on me, it was very flattering and pretty.  Just got it a month ago..

    My TTD, $90 for ebay..

    Then my "dream" dress, a Monique Lhuillier gown, never worn, purchased for a steal!  I'll be selling the other two.. :)

     

    Thanks for this thread, it makes me feel better :)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    I bought 2. I have one in my closet I am trying to sell, and I get to pick up the real deal in a couple weeks. = )

     
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    julybride2be2011    July 2, 2011  

    I feel a bit better about this now since I'm thinking of trying to find another gown...I'm trying on my gown this weekend to make sure but I know when going into find the dress what I wanted but came out something different!  I might go try on a couple more but I feel like I've tried everything but haven't found "the dress" that I picture i my mind!  Either that it doesn't exist or that it's way out of my price range!

     
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    julybride2be2011    July 2, 2011  

    @meliss:  I LOVE the Lazaro on you hands down!!

     
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    Ms Scarlet    February 28, 2011   New York

    I'm thankful for this thread too:) I try not to talk about how many dresses I went through coz I'm ashamed. I was a 3 dress bride- ended up selling them all and by the time I have a dress it would have been my 4th!

    My dream dress was a Monique Lhuillier which I always knew I loved and was the first dress I went and ordered right after I got engaged (without consulting anyone in my family). Unfortunately my very conservative family was not happy that the back of the dress had a keyhole that exposes my bare back (meaning no bra) all the way down to my waist. So the options were to throw a shrug over it, get it altered to have no hole or get rid of the dress.

    After that I went to sample sales and bought dresses that were ok-at-the-moment and were great deals. I didn't love any and went through another 2 dresses which I bought and sold afterwards...

    phew! I feel better now:)

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Why am I the only one to post pics? :)  I wanna see other three dress bride pics!

     
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    julybride2be2011    July 2, 2011  

    Okay, here's my deliema!  Okay yes, I went shopping again today and tried on some more dresses!  I didn't like most of them but I did fall in love with a Sottero and Midgley Dress:#ASM3292.  I LOVED IT!  It's totally different style than the one I have.  I'll be trying on my dress this Saturday so hopefully I'll love it then  I can stop thinking about all these dresses! Here are my two dresses I love!

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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I still love your original dress! Looks great on you.

     
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    julybride2be2011    July 2, 2011  

    I wish I could take a picture of the other gown but the store wouldn't let me! Not only that but they gave me the wrong name of the dress!! They've done that 3 times now to me...that's so you can't search for it unless you spend hours looking for it!  My friend had the same experience with them...

     
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    CindyMarie    June 25, 2011   Brandon ,MS

     

    I ordered one online, hated it and sent it back before buying my gown. Theres one I REALLY loved but its sold only online unless I go to Ohio, forget it.LOL,HERE IT IS THOUGH

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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    I bought one, after trying on over at least 30. Not exactly in my budget to buy multiple "sales final" wedding dresses. :)

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    I'm a one dress bride....

    However... I also saw so many dress regret posts on the bee that once I "said yes" to my dress.... I waited a few weeks... I saw more dresses.... I waited until it was just no doubt in my mind on my dress. I tried on probably around 60, lol.

    Even then, I had a few worries.... I still loved my dream dress which was a justin alexander ball gown....

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    and I bought a mermaid....

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    But, the dress came in, I tried it on, and there was NO DOUBT she was the one! ;-)

    I MAY.... and that's a very much MAY wind up getting a get away dress... but not another full gown. My dress has buttons to undo all the way down and is pretty heavy :-)

     
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    nyebee68    December 31, 2011  

    I purchased about 10 dresses and sold them back on ebay because they were not returnable.  My mom and fiance were not happy because I lost money on all of them.  I finally found my dress and am very happy with it.  After buying dresses all year, I found my dream dress 2 weeks before my wedding.

     
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    ayala88    August 2013   Champaign

    Wow, how can people afford to buy multiple dresses? As a completely broke grad student, one moderately-cheap dress is already more money than I literally HAVE! Those of you who've purchased 3+ dresses-- were you given an option of returning the dresses, or do you just happen to have the money to spend? I'd much rather take the time to make a wise purchase and not an impulse buy, and look for the best deal available to avoid wasting money that I'd rather spend on another part of the wedding :)

     

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