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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Hey bees :)

    How much did/will your wedding band cost? His? And what are you getting engraved (if anything) on the inside? and why?

     

    thanks! 

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    $650 for both, no engraving.

     
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    ktbabe    July 17, 009   Indiana

    We had originally budgeted $350 for his and $500 for mine. But we got a steal on a titanium band for him for $30!!!! And another steal on a great band for me for $215. So altogether: $245. We're cheapo's! But we love our bands!

     
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    mskalinin    Sept. 12, 2009   North East

    We spent $148 on two 14k gold wedding bands with our date engraved inside. We both are minimalists and traditionalists, we have small fingers and we got 3mm instead of something thicker. I love them, and I still can't believe they were only $74 each!!

     
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    JeniRae    May 2, 2009   Pittsburgh

    Yikes! I feel like the big spender!!

    Mine is a 4mm platinum band with 8 diamonds and 2 gemstones (our birthstones) scattered in it. It was $1650 from a custom jeweler. 

    His is a 6mm white gold brushed band that was $256 for the materials and a (different) jeweler friend made it for us as a gift. 

    No engravings.

     Pictures in Bio! :) 

     
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    lavenderpug    3/10   NYC/Wedding in Half Moon Bay, CA

    we splurged. $1800 for both, no engravings. jenirae, i am in the same boat as you. eek.

     
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    poli2b    October 11, 2009   Aliso Viejo

    Mine is $2k. It has diamonds and matches my engagement ring setting.

    We haven't gotten his yet, but I've priced around and it will prob end up being $350

     
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    Babilu    November 20, 2010  

    Mine will be $4800 (bc of the diamonds) and his is just under $2000 (platinum)

     
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    Chantellamus    October 15, 2009  

    about $2500 for each.

     

     
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    BenJerrysBride    August 2009   Stowe, Vermont

    Wow - there is quite the range out there - I guess it's good that we have choices these days. We went with non-matching bands; 11 channel set diamonds for me in 3mm white gold at $750 and plain 4mm white gold for him at $250. Our jeweler friend didn't charge us tax so we came in right at $1000 which was more than we originally wanted to spend but that price of gold just kept going up!

    We didn't go the engraving route because our jeweler reminded us that, though it can be touching, engravings can get ruined or stretched if you have to resize your ring. Not that I'm anticipating that but we figured not worth the hassel or expense.

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    maryjane    September 9, 2009   Grand Forks, ND

    Our engraving will be free I think because we spent so much with this jeweler already. Our bands don't match; mine matches my set and his is custom. The total for both will be around $3600. Both of our bands contain diamonds and the metal is 18k gold (white for mine; white and yellow for his).

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    My ring was $140 (on sale), it's a 3-mm flat white gold band.  I wanted something very plain with no stones.  I teach young kids, so I wanted something that I didn't have to worry about at school.  I also wanted to keep a clean look with my engagement ring, so that the stone would really shine.  His ring was $60 (including shipping)--a 6-mm tungsten ring.  The jewlery store where we bought my ring was selling the one he wanted for $375, but we found the exact same ring at a fraction of the cost!

    We didn't engrave our rings, so I guess we spent $200 combined.  We were happy because we saved money AND got the rings we wanted. :) 

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    Our bands don't match.  But they both very much reflect our individual styles :)

    Mine is a 7 stone, prong set, 1.5 carat diamond band, set in 14K white gold - $2500

    He chose a Tungsten band - $89!  

    Our wedding bands are each engraved with our anniversary written in Roman Numerals - so it looks like this: II.XV.MMVIII

     

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    hubby's ring was about $900 (platinum) and was engraved with our wedding date as well as something that only has meaning to us. We got it from ebay lol But, it was exactly what he wanted and he was happy with it. Mine was about $1500 i think (with tax) but couldn't have engraving. It's platinum with bezel set diamonds with miligrain around them. Came from brilliantearth.com Our rings definitely don't match :p

     
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    hoodjeam    7/18/09   Iowa

    Mine was 900 and his was 700- we got a great deal from our jeweler or it would have been way more!

     
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    CalicoBride    7/11/09   Omaha, NE

    Mine was $250, it has pave set diamonds in a marquise pattern.  We got his Tungsten band off of Overstock.com for $60.  We had seen the same rings at our jewelry store for $300+.  It was inexpensive enough that I also bought him an engagement ring to wear.  I felt a bit bad that my band was so much more then his, but I love it.

     
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    2dBride    October 6, 2009   Washington, DC.

    The one my fiancee is giving me was her grandmother's. The one I got her is a plain 22 karat yellow gold band that matches the one she is giving me. It was $155.61 from eBay UK. (Because the one she is giving me is 22 karat, it was very hard to find a matching one from a US seller.)

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    About $4000 for mine (white gold). My FI's is cheaper thank goodness (tungsten), which is only a couple hundred. I think we might get his engraved, not sure with what yet!

     
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    amymoidl    June 26, 2010   Kansas City, MO

    My bands are going to be $4100.  They are platinum and diamond.  I have a band setting (hard to describe) as my engagement ring, so I thought it looked silly to have just one band...I'm a freak about symmetry,so I'm getting one for each side :)

    My fiance wants titanium or tungsten--so we are figuring only a few hundred.

    Probably no engraving.

     
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    fizicsGirl    8/1/2009   Michigan

    Mine is kind of btwn Edwardian and art deco filigree white gold (custom mold), with a small cabachon ruby and some very small brilliant rubies around it.  I like the lighter color and they are small, so the stones were not very expensive.  Overall we were really surprised that he quoted $1300 for it all.  FI wants a steel band, so it's like $30.

     

     
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    littlebug    5/30/2010   MA

    We spent $180 on his and $40 on mine. I ended up loving the simple, white gold, 2mm band! I think it shows off my solitare wonderfully. :) And he loved the price! Engravings come free with Kay's, but we haven't done it yet.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    mine was $100 and his was $250, they're both simple white gold bands. they did engravings free because we had already given them so much business fixing my engagement ring. they both say "i am my beloved and my beloved is mine" in hebrew.

     
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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    I told him that I didn't want to spend a lot on my ring, but he basically ignored me.

    We spent $150 on his ring because it can't be resized and he's trying to lose weight. He's lost 50 pounds so far and has another 50 to go (in his eyes). We will be buying him another ring eventually so we went with something cheaper. He loves his ring though because he works on cars (as a side gig in our garage) and it can't get messed up. He likes the fact that he can still wear his ring when he's working.

     
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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    Also, My initials didn't change when I got married so I put the following on his ring...

    TWS + AJS = FOREVER 11.7.09

    My ring couldn't be engraved because it has diamonds all the way around.

    I also engraved his watch (wedding present). I wrote "TWS - Hi. I will love you until the end of time. - AJS" I almost just wrote the word "Hi" just because that's so my personality, but I didn't.

     
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    Blondiebee    October 9, 2009  

    We spent about $2000 on both our rings and had our wedding dates engraved inside them. : )

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    We got both our wedding bands (6mm yellow gold confort fit for him, 2mm white gold for me) for about $300 (normally they would have been $425 together) on special because we bought them with my engagement ring. No engraving, although I have been thinking of it.

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    Mine is $1000

    His is $350

    No Engraving!

     
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    2010bride2bee    September 2010  

    I don't have the paperwork handy and can't recall exactly, but both of them came out to just under $4000 (including tax) I believe. No engraving, that's not my thing.

     
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    lemondrop    March 13, 2010   Arizona

    $106 for mine, $65 for his, no engravings, titanium with inlays.

     
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    DecemberBride    December 5, 2009  

    My bands were about $2300 (I got two- I'm also a freak about symmetry!), palladium with diamonds. Hubby's wedding band was about $300 (tungsten)

     
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    skibobrown    July 31, 2010   CA (wedding in Bar Harbor, ME)

    Both of us feel really strongly that we want platinum rings -- me b/c it would match my engagement ring, and FI b/c... well, he just likes platunum, and I figure he should be able to get whatever he wants after he dropped all that money on an engagement ring for me.  The one I'm looking at has tiny diamonds along the top side of the ring, and it costs something like $950 from Brilliant Earth.  I don't know what FIs will cost, but I'm guessing in the $1000 range, so we're looking at something like $2000 total for wedding bands.  Yikes!

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    Mine was $800 (white gold with diamonds), his was $285 (tungsten, no diamonds).  We're not doing engraving because I don't think you can engrave tungsten.

     
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    prettyflowers    September 2010  

    Ours will probably cost ~$500 for both (white gold) unless I decide I want a ring w/ diamonds.

    I like the idea of engraving - maybe just our initials and wedding date? 

     
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    egb    January 2010  

    When we chose my e-ring, we knew nothing would fit with it and decided that I would wear the e-ring on my right hand, and my wedding band on the left hand. When we started shopping for my band, I tried and liked some rings, but we came across a set that was simple, delicate and unique... he liked the look of two rings on the same finger.. never thought we'd be going the traditional route, but we bought it, and are totally in love with it!

    So, about 225$ for the e-ring; then 400$ for the set and 380$ for his white gold wedding band - all of these include the taxes.

     
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    egb    January 2010  

    Oh and we intended to engrave our bands with a few words that are meaningful to us, that describe our relationship... but mine is too small to be engraved and we decided not to do it on his ring only. So no engraving for us!

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    If we buy the rings we've been eyeing, mine will be $800 and his will probably be around $1,000. Mine is not engraveable as it is oval bevel set diamonds all the way around and his  we will have the wedding date engraved.

     
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    nevjcu    July 10, 2010  

    Mine is a platinum Hearts on Fire band; it was around $2000 I think.

    His is a platinum benchmark band and it is $1800

     
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    melv0802    September 18, 2010   new jersey/philadelphia

    mine was 2k, eternity band white gold, his was 400 white gold plain band...we loove ours..trying to debate on whether or not we should get them engraved or not..

     

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