- Meagan Lindsay
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
I need a little help here ladies as I am very confused and not sure what to do…
Fiance is a groomsman in a wedding a month before ours. (The Groom is also one of fiance’s groomsmen in our wedding).
So we get a facebook invite from the Bride for their Jack and Jill party, to which we have to pay to go to, bring food to, also bring a prize to be raffled off and they will be doing a dollar dance at the Jack and Jill.
I’ve never been to one of these but I assumed the people who throw Jack and Jills just want money and would rather not get gifts like toasters and plates and that the bride would not be having a bridal shower. However I just found out the bride did infact register. So I am wondering how much we are expected to do and give? Give them money for Jack and Jill, gift raffle for Jack and Jill, and gift for bridal shower and money at the wedding (which by the way is far away and we have to stay 2 nights overnight.) Any thoughts and help would be appreciated!