Post # 1
I find it really funny when brides are asked this question and only tally up the venue and photographer or just the venue. My ENTIRE wedding (dress, photo,dj,alcohol, cake, rings,decor,caterer,honeymoon, etc.) was about $8500.
Post # 3
That’s a good point….Hmm..
Hair & Makeup: 80
Grand Total: 4200
Pretty darn good deal if you ask me. I’m a bargain shopper!
Post # 4
We had an original budget of 30k and it is pretty much met (with things we sdont have nailed down figured in) and we are steadily climbing over…
Wedding Planner: 1800
Open Bar: 4500 to start
Rehearsal Dinner dress: 450
Yea and we still have a lot to do! Some things will fluctuate up or down. I seriously dont know what I was thinking but Im amazed at how expensive a wedding can be and how carried away you can get. Ours is in the city and for about 200 guests, and its an evening Saturday wedding that’s formal. Yikes!
The FILs are paying for the rehearsal dinner, the Sunday brunch, alcohol, and the honeymoon and possibly more. Breaking it down makes it scary lol.
Post # 5
Once you factor in the honeymoon, rehearsal dinner, brunch, and misc things like a rehearsal dinner dress, ours will probably be over $40,000. Which is totally crazy. That does include a splurge honeymoon and EVERYTHING else related, including things that will be used/appreciated long after the day, like shoes, RD dress, highlights, that kind of thing. Yikes.
Post # 6
Our entire wedding weekend (getting to Pgh for the wedding, rehearsal/reh dinner, all things wedding-related, day-after brunch & flights back to NYC. Does NOT include our honeymoon or my e-ring) is looking to come in between $23k-$25k. The wedding day itself will be about $15k-$18k-ish). This is for about 130-150 guests (about 25 guests each for rehearsal/reh dinner & day-after party), and we’re also providing lodging for our entire bridal party & their dates for 2 nights.
That all said, I still think I can shrink another $1-2k out=)
EDIT: Our honeymoon is hard to pinpoint since we haven’t booked anything beyond hotels & flights yet, but we’ve budgeted $10k for 10 days in Australia.
Post # 7
Just under $9k for EVERYTHING…..for a 85 guest wedding on the beach.
Post # 8
OMG I sooo envy you ladies who can do their wedding for less than $20k!! In the area I live just to reserve the venue( not including flowers, dj, photographer, dress. tux alll that type of stuff) it is a min of $20k! It makes me crazy! I should just elope! I think is is awesome that some ladies do it for I dont want to say cheap because NONE of it is cheap but lets say cheaper than $20K.
Standing ovation for you ladies!!! 🙂
Post # 9
20K, then 15K for the ring on top of that…
Post # 10
Mine came out to $25K almost exactly (for 110 guests in NYC). This includes everything except for the honeymoon (we were gifted airline tickets from my dad and some money for travel from his parents).
Post # 11
We’re both finishing up grad school so are on a tight budget….here goes:
dress: 700 (fits like a glove, so no alterations!! yay)
Hair and Makeup: will DIY
flowers: 485 (includes 1 bridal boquet, 1 MOH boquet, 3 corsages, 4 bout, pew decor, and 8 little centerpieces)
sit down luncheon reception: 1645 (plus tax and gratuity. this includes food and non-alcoholic drinks for 47 ppl and no rental fees)
invites: 140 (for 50 invites, reception card, rsvp cards)
FI’s suit: <400 (not yet purchased)
photographer: free!! (FI’s step brother is a photographer. Score!)
Hotel rental at fancy-schmancy hotel for night before wedding: 285
Honeymoon: to be determined
That comes to 5279 plus honeymoon….but some things will be used longterm such as rings, shoes, and my FI’s suit (will be used for business meetings, etc)…. so it’s more like 4389 for wedding alone
Post # 13
The wedding: around $550 & includes Dress/shoes/vail/tiara. FIs shirt/ties (FI already owns a suit). Flowers. Photographer. Venue & food/punch for a dessert reception of 250 guests.
The rings we’re going to get on our honeymoon cause it’ll be more fun for us. If we can’t find anything, we’ll just get rings off of Etsy when we get back. Estimating $100 for rings.
Honeymoon cruise: around $2800 for a 10 day cruise, including travel expenses
Plus, we’re going to get my BM/MOH & his GM/BM their gifts on our honeymoon, so I suppose I should add that to our wedding budget. I just don’t have a clue what to get them yet! Estimating $200 for that.
A total of about $3600 all together :).
Post # 14
Including the rings, honeymoon, and everything in between… I don’t even wanna know! LOL– I’m guesstimating like $40,000 when all is said and done.
Post # 15
Hm, considering how costs just start creeping up and differences between ‘planned’ and ‘actual’ become more glaring, I am afraid to even think about it. But we should be able to be under $20K for our DW wedding, including tickets and accomodation, honeymoon, and rings.
Post # 16
I didn’t do a final analysis, but with EVERYTHING, probably around $40K.
Honestly, I know we could have spent less, but we got married in about 8 months, and on NYE, so we didn’t have as much wiggle room when it came to vendor shopping as most others. We kind of had to use who we could and go from there. It definitely increased what we spent.
I really have no idea how people spend less than $10K…I wish I had that talent!