Post # 1
Minus things you had to buy before you left like invitations, dress, etc. But including flight and hotel for you and your FI.
And how many guests did you have?
We’re geting Married in DR, andit is coming to about $15,000 for all travel and resort-related expenses. I’ll probably have less than 50 people. I’m pretty confortable with this but my initial budget was $10,000. Technically the wedding itself is $10,000, and the extra $5,000 is me and FI’s travel and hotel costs since it’s also our honeymoon so we didn’t want to skimp.
After all is said and done we’ll probably end up spending closer to $20,000 including invistations, wedding bands, dress, favors, programs etc. Hard to belive. I am NOT a big spender.
Post # 3
~30 people attending in Punta Cana DR
Budget just for ceremony, reception, resort & travel for us is ~$7500.
Add our photog/videog and it’s $15K.
Our total budget for everything is $20K that includes:
- 2 visits to DR (air & resort fees) 1 pre-planning trip, 1 trip for the actual wedding ($2500)
- Mini Honeymoon for 3 days after wedding at a nearby resort ($720)
- Beach ceremony & Reception ($2500)
- Black SUVs & Drivers to transport my family from their home to airport. ($1000)
- Passport & Boarding Pass DIY Invitations ($400)
- DJ ($650) placeholder – we haven’t decided on this yet.
- Ceremony singers ($500) – placeholder – we haven’t decided on this yet.
- Reception Entertainment: Fire dancers & Stilt Walkers ($700)
- Day before wedding dinner cruise & snorkeling for guests ($2500)
I must say it makes me so happy to list all that stuff and say we’re getting it for the same price as having an at home wedding with all my family. Basically, we would’ve blown it all in one evening but instead we’re spending over more than a weekend!
The cost that hurts the most is my splurge on photo/videography. I’m flying them down and there’s 4 of them, so the total cost incl their fees is ~ $8K. A huge chunk of our budget. We had originally planned a home wedding, but the cost was getting out of control and we felt we weren’t going to be happy with what we were getting. So, we canceled that, but we already had booked our photog/videog. So, we kept them. I just hope they are worth it!
I think it will be because so many people say the one thing they regret is not spending enough on these items. After all the planning and $$$ all you have left are the photgraphs and videos!
Post # 4
We are getting married in Mexico playa del Carmen, we have about 90 ppl attending
ceremony and reception is coming out to about 13/14,000
flowers for bridesmaids and groomsmen 300.00
decorations for tables center pieces: 1200
trio band for cocktail hour 700.00
mariachi band 700.00
extra charge for not using resorts photographer /videographer 600.00 to bring in
trolleys to take our guest to and from the church 150.00
Getting married on Saturday in a church 600.00
dj with light up dance floor and extra hour 1,800
Our budget was suppose to be no more then 18,000 ummmmm ya that didn’t go to plan. I think we are around 23,00 maybe even more 🙁 I’m actually scared to do all of the math).
hotel and Airfare 2,800 for 2 ppl
wedding bands 2,500 mostly because of mine
wedding dress 1,400
groomsmen gifts 1,600
bridesmaids gift 1,300
:slowly hyperventilating over here:
he is getting his suit made not even sure how much that will be 🙁
Post # 5
@Reign14: I think we spent a total of $7000 on our destiantion wedding in Cuba. We had 65 guests. I brought some deocrations and chair ties with us to the location. My husbands parents paid for my wedding dress and his suit for the wedding
$1200- cost for both of us for flight and stay for 11 days (we were given a comp of the cost of 3 persons since we brought so many guests)
$3100- private dinner in our own restaurant for 67 people including dancing area, DJ and bartender
$150- for photgrapher and prints and disc with all pictures on it
$120- musical trio for one hour
$100- decorations for ceremony
$90- sparklng champagne
$1200- cost of groomsmen clothing and bridesmaid dresses
Post # 6
@sweetchiquita12: Wow that’s really good! Did the resort charge you for the ceremony at all?
Post # 7
@GlamMeup: Hah, I’m sure it was still less than having it locally. And Iknow it’ll be beautiful!
Post # 8
Our DW will be in Aruba. We’ll have 17 people total (plus 4 meals for vendors).
We’ll be spending about $11/12k (not including activities and food for the rest of the week)
Rehearsal/welcome lunch (16 people) $800
Ceremony decor about $400
Bridesmaid/groomsmen flowers $200
Guitarist $450 (more b/c we’re having him add 3 songs not on his playlist)
Wedding package $400 (planner, bride/groom flowers, pedestal to sign the papers, meeting w/ consultant, unlimited emails…took off $100 since we are bringing our own officiant)
Roundtrip transportation for all guests $230
Hair and makeup for myself, 2 sisters, and trial for myself $500
Photographer (5 hours) $2000
Videographer (4 hours, 50 minute dvd, 3-4 minute trailer, all raw footage for free) $1560
Reception F&B- budgeted $1900
Cake- about $200
Reception decor budgeted $350 (planner is waiting on florist for quotes)
Flight & hotel (7 days) $2400
Post # 9
@Reign14: Nope no charge for the ceremony at all because we had alot of people booked at the hotel. We only had to pay for extra decorations we wanted for the ceremony area. Check out my recap of our wedding to see 🙂
Post # 10
@sweetchiquita12: Saw the recap! You and your wedding party looked beautiful. Loved your colors and glad everything went well!
Post # 11
@katievee: Thanks for the break down. Sounds about right for the amount of people and the extra touches to make it special. Like you, my biggest costs seem to be travel/hotel and photography, both things I don’t mind splurging on.
Post # 13
We did Mexico, not the Caribbean, but maybe it still helps? For all resort related costs plus total trip cost for the man and me, it was about $12,000. We had 63 guests and had a full reception.
We got married at an all inclusive resort and pretty much all the guests sayed on site.
Post # 14
@cbgg Can you please tell me what is the name of your resort and what did your wedding package include?
Post # 15
We are eloping to Sandals Negril (no guests)
so far room is $5,700 for 7 nights – airfare is not out yet, but est to be around $400-600 per person.
We have a $500 dollar wedding credit and we est we will probably be spending around $300 out of pocket for the wedding, but our first phone conference isn’t until August and I will have a better idea then.
We opted to hire an offsite photographer to pick us up after ceremony and do wedding photos and trash the dress photos on the beach at sunset. $1,500 for 3 hours.
wowweee it is a lot for two people eloping haha.