Post # 1
Okay so almost everyone I know have their bridesmaids pay for their own dresses. I found a dress that was alright and was only 99$ at david’s bridal but last night i came across a dessy dress that i love and we can have both of my wedding colors in the dress (eggpland and very light yellow) because there is a sash. Well this dress is 215$ but i was offered a 10% discount if we purchase 5, which is how many bridesmaids i have. So should i pay for the dress as their gift or should i pay half? HELP ME!?!?!
Post # 3
My girl’s dresses are from Priscilla of Boston and are $200. I am paying for 2 out of the 6,
The only reason I’m paying is mine is a destination wedding. So after my cousin decided last minute that she wasn’t going to be able to do the wedding I asked a guest to stand in and offerred to pay for her dress. The other one is my future Sis in law. She has 3 daughters and things are tight so I offered to help.
Post # 4
i think it depends on your bridesmaids and your budget. if they can afford that, than that would be fine. if you can afford to buy it for them as a gift, awesome. personally, i couldn’t afford that as a bridesmaid and i think it would be nice if you paid half. cute dress btw!
Post # 5
My dresses started at $265 but with discounts ended up at about $215/dress. We are paying for $25 plus the $25 shipping for each dress. I based what I decided was a “reasonable” cost for the dress on what I’d paid for dresses in all of my other friends’ weddings, and they were all in that neighborhood. I think you just have to know your audience and figure out what they would be comfortable with. Another thought is that if you know there are one or two girls who might have a hard time paying that much, you could offer to discreetly subsidize part of the cost of their dresses.
Post # 6
hmmm ours cost $50.00 each and I paid, the girls absolutely love them and they are a really nice red silk. Im all about finding the bargain! I wanted to buy off the rack and I found a clearance store specialising in dresses and we found about 7 dresses for the girls to try on.. this one came up trumps and if we didnt chose it the girls were going to buy it anyway! I had orginally budgeted for up to $200 dollars per dress and I have 3 girls to dress.
Post # 7
I’m hoping that my Bridesmaid or Best Man will be able to purchase their own dresses. I’m going to try to find the most economical dresses for them; maybe $100-125
Post # 8
I gave myself a limit of $200, which seemed reasonable from other dresses I’ve had to buy. Anything over $200 I was going to pay for myself… luckily I was able to find something below that limit. I’d find out what your BMs think is reasonable and pay the difference – certainly not all of it!
Post # 9
I knew I wasn’t going to be paying for my bm’s dresses. As a result before I began looking I asked them what they were comfortable paying – they all had the same answer, no more than $250. I found great dresses by Swoon . The dresses all come with a sash that is extra, I am paying for their sashes ($22-$28 each…)
Post # 10
I found Watters bridesmaid gown for my girls but they were $235. The bridal shop said they would give me a 10% discount. I ended up ordering them for $156 from Netbride.com They have real designer dresses and not knock offs. It might be worth checking out, they carry almost every designer. And no I am not paying for my girls dresses.
Post # 11
my girls picked out their own and used their own price range, or wore things they owned. If I had done the matchy thing, I would have chosen a dress 115 and under. Probably something more from Nordstroms online in the 40-75 range. I don’t look anywhere more expensive than I expect to pay, that helps a lot when figuring out options w/in the budget.
Post # 12
We wanted to pay for our bridal party outfits, so we bought the bridesmaid’s dresses. We ended up spending $30 for two of them, $40 for one, $50 for one and $80 for the maid of honor. I spent months scouring stores and eBay until I found the perfect dress for each girl. And they all genuinely love them!
Post # 13
My BMs are paying for theirs. We started the process by choosing the color (black), then rummaging in their own closets to see if they could use anything they already owned. Afterwards, my Maid/Matron of Honor & I went pre-shopping & found the PERFECT dress; I went with my other Bridesmaid or Best Man to see if she liked it, too. Both bought their dresses on the spot! The dress cost $158 + tax…I think their willingness to buy stemmed (A LOT) from the fact that they got a say in the color choice & that the dress is something they BOTH think they’ll wear again & again (everyone needs a LBD, right? ) Here it is: (me on the left, Bridesmaid or Best Man on the right…it matches my dress like a glove, no?)
Post # 14
thanks so much guys!!! I am thinking about offering to pay 50$ of each of my BM’s dresses as part of their gift. My mom makes homemade jewelry so she’ll be making them each a necklace and earings and not asking me for money, how awesome of her (all the same stones but different for their tastes) and i am going to have a pedicure night at a local nail salon where it’s just us and i pay for the pedicures, so i will be spending about 100$ on each girl, which is all that i will be able to afford, would you guys be happy if you were one of my BM’s?
Post # 15
My BMs are all wearing different dresses, so the prices vary a little, but they’ve been in the range of $99-$135. I’m paying for two of the four because they’ll have to pay for plane tickets to get to my wedding. One of the ones I’m not paying for is actually doing double-duty for that Bridesmaid or Best Man: her sister said she could wear the same dress for her wedding, so yay!
Post # 16
MY BMs also wore different dresses, so they ranged from $99 to $250. They paid for their own dresses, so they picked their own dress based on their taste and budget.
Have you tried http://www.netbride.com? They sell Dessy dresses at prices that might be cheaper than the discount you are getting.