- 6 years ago
My FI and I have been together for 10 years but waited 3 years to start having sex. We are eachothers only sex partners we have had. Both of us are 27 now.
FI ALWAYS WANTS IT. Any place, any time
When we first started, we would do it maybe 5 times a day… It was crazy, we were in college and it was fun. Now, I’m kind of bored. We’ve been in a MDR (medium distance relationship hehe) for a year and a half, which means we can see eachother every weekend. Still the moment he sees me, gets to my place of fridays he is all over me! Geeeshh. Im more of a night time or even a morning sex or shower sex kind of girl… Random hours just arent appealing to me and im just thinking how I’m going to have to redo my makeup or clean up or whatever.
He would do it every day several times a day if I were into it. I feel like I’m being a bad girlfriend for not wanting it all the time, and he feels kind of offended when I reject him, and keeps insisting, which makes me annoyed and just want it even less. I’ll be like… Baby can we do it later?? And he’s like… Yes we can do it later AGAIN! Cute but annoying
Also i don’t have orgasms with penetration… Maybe that’s part of the issue? He does do oral on me before every time which is great (he’s very good,really) and generous of him but I’m really just not always in the mood!
Is it normal for him to want it ALL THE TIME? is it normal for me to say no?
We do it at least 4-5 times on the weekends… When we have been for long periods of time together 1-2 month vacations we start doing it every day once or twice and then maybe every other day or 2 out of every 3. I still would prefer like… Once a week.
Is thin completely unreasonable of me?
Im thinking once we get married he’ll expect it every day… And I’ll want it even less.