How much sex is too much?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
104 posts
Blushing bee

That’s awseome! IMO, having a lot of sex is super great for a relationship. I don’t think there is such a thing as too much, unless it is getting in the way of having a normal life? I wish I was a more sexual person, but I guess I’m not

Post # 4
1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Billsgirl:  I think “too much” is for each individual and couple to decide and that decision may hinge on any multitude of issues, such as fatigue, stress, workload, housework, kids, etc etc.

Beyond that, though….it’s too much when you’re getting friction burns.

ETA: for me personally, having sex twice a day, every day would be too much.  It would be fine sometimes, but not all the time.  Ideally for me I’d say 4-5 days per week is good, more than that is fine but not all the time.

Post # 5
10833 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Well too much (for us) would be everyday. It’s not fun if it’s all the time or starts to be painful. If he could ‘go’ a little quicker maybe once a day would be fine but when an hour long session is your usual it makes things a little different.

I think it’s probably different for everyone and depends on the timing and such.

Post # 6
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Billsgirl:  I now feel like a perv… But 3 to 4 times a day and on weekends…. 7 … 9 is the record.

Post # 7
1734 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

When everyone’s genitals need structural reinforcement, it’s too much.

That aside, well done with the stamina. I’m impressed.

Post # 8
1689 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Billsgirl:  As long as both people are happy, and it isn’t interferring with your job or ability to leave the house, it’s not too much.

My MOH came over to hang out and eat icecream last night after getting stood up for a date.  When he finally texted her back, he claimed that he, “Hates feeling obligated to have sex all the time.”  (They see each other maybe once a week)

So too much for him, not enough for her!

Post # 12
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Billsgirl:  I had never in my life had I had so much Sex!!! I am glad I am not alone my husband just gives me the look… Sex gives you endorphins endorphins make you happy… Enjoy lucky one!!!!

Post # 13
8483 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I suppose it’s too much when one of you doesn’t want to do it anymore!  Or if you give yourself extreme soreness/tears from all the banging then I guess that also might be too much.  Or maybe if you get fired from your job because you’re having sex and not working, that might also be too much.

Post # 14
6073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well for us personally – every day or every other day would be too much sex.  My hoohah has to recoup. 

I don’t think my body is made to have everyday sex honestly.  We are both in training for races/events, and man we’re just plain old exhausted all the time.  We just have other aspects of life that has to get done!  If I had sex twice a day I pretty much would have to give up all my hobbies I think.


Post # 15
1076 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

That used to be us. Then I got on birth control and all I want to do is sleep and eat cheese. :C

Post # 16
42117 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Billsgirl:  There is no such thing as too much sex if it works for both partners.

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