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posted 2 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Is $420 too much for a womans wedding band? (best man paying)
    No, you should get what you want and $420 is reasonable : (37 votes)
    88 %
    I think you should get what you want, but think $420 is a bit much. : (3 votes)
    7 %
    You should find something cheaper. $420 is way too much. : (1 votes)
    2 %
    I have another opinion and it's listed below. : (1 votes)
    2 %
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    kcasam    December 6, 2010   Baltimore

    So in my fiance's family it's traditional for the best man to buy the wedding rings. I am picking mine out now, but I'm afraid to pick one that is expensive, even though he said to get whatever I want.

    Do you think this is too expensive?

    $420 Art Deco-Style Wedding Band (2nd from last on page 4)

    http://antiqueengagementrings.com/shopping/shoperror.asp

     

     

     
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    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    I've never heard of that tradition before, that's different.  Personally, I thnk that $400 is reasonable - but mine was about 3 times more.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i think that sounds like a good price.... but it's different for everybody.

     
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    galore5    May 29, 2010   chicago

    interesting tradition. mine was $3200, but it has stones in it.... you will wear it forever. get what you want!

     
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    FutureMrs.Taylor    June 12, 2010   Shawnee, KS

    That's a good price!

     
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    sahsabahs    June 2011  

    For Platinum that is a very good deal. Very nice ring!!

     
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    what2bee    August 13, 2011  

    If you are uncomfortable ask your husband, maybe the best man could purchase a ring that is less costly and you could upgrade later? I'm not sure, but I do think in general that is a very reasonable price for a wedding ring- and obviously if that's the tradition then he's prepared for it...

     
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    sjones724    07/03/10   Frederick MD

    that price is actually very good!

     
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    pinkginger    8/14/2010  

    We haven't bought ours yet but it's going to be in the $1000 range due to platinum and stones.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I think that tradition is interesting! I have NEVER heard of anything like it before that is for sure...but I think $400 is a very resonable price for a wedding band. Does he pay for your hubbys too?

     
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    kcasam    December 6, 2010   Baltimore

    yes, he pays for both.

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I think 400 is a reasonable price for a wedding band.

     
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    Thats a really interesting tradition, I've never heard of that! (If we did that, I'd end up with a cracker jack wedding band, knowing my FI's best man!)

    I voted "other" because I think that for some people, $420 would be way too much, while for others, $420 is a drop in the bucket. I'm not sure how to vote not knowing your family's or the best man's socioeconomic situation. Would you feel comfortable asking the best man how much he can spend on this (or maybe ask him to give you a range) before choosing the ring? Or maybe you can have your fiance ask him for you, if that is less awkward.

     
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    Ella1978    June 19, 2010   Cleveland, Ohio

    My fiance loved one that we found at Zales for 399 bucks.. found the same one online in several places for less that 100!

    Amazon was a huge help for us, that's where we started.  Then my FI found Perry Olsen's website.  They make a lot of the rings.. very affordable!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    is the best man, like, a brother or something? I'd probably ask for a VERY simple, plain band (cheap) then upgrade to something more expensive. I've feel very strange accepting a $400 gift from one of my husband's friends. Even from his family. The only people I'm OK accepting that expensive of a gift from are him and my parents, honestly.

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    omg I am love with that band!!! We paid like 700 for my ring, but it has diamonds in it, and is only white gold. i would say to get what you want, because your the one that has to deal with it!

     

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